I just want to know what the h**l is wrong with my husbad, ?

Question

when he left me several weeks ago I made him leave everything, except his vehicle, that was in my name. Including his cell phone. About two nights ago an old friend of his and his brother (my husband brother) text the phone to see if my husband would come work for them like he had done before when we split up. Of course there were drugs involved, that is the only way that "friend" kept my husband working day and night... but anyway he text my husbands phone, being the dumb *** that I am I text back pretending to be my hsuband. I figured he is the dumb *** that text the phone when he knew that my husband and I were split up. Anyway, I text the phone and for the first few minutes I pretended to be my husband...and then I though, what the h**l do I care what is going on in his life so I told the guy who I was.....He said ok.. I apologized and he said all he wanted was for my husband to come work for him.. I told him that I was not going to be communicating with my husband and we left it at that. Now, the other night my husband text supposedly just to "check on me" and see how I was doing. When I didn't respond he cursed me out and said he would never text me again. Now this morning he text me and said that I better leave his family and friends alone before I regret what happens. So I did not answer to that. Then he text me and said that I just can't stand that he is doing good and that I am a hatin *** B****..... What is his deal? Why can't he just leave me alone if he wants us to be over? Seriously?

Answer 1

Your husband is threatening, angry and involved with illegal activities.  I'd say that pretty much sums up what's wrong with him...

Answer 2

he sounds like a junky....ignore each and every one of his txt messages.  He sounds like a user and abuser.  How dare he call you a "B" I don't care how high he is....he needs to be knocked off his pedestal.  Don't let him come over or anything.  He needs to get into the closest rehab.....pass go, go directly to rehab...do not collect $200....

Answer 3

illegal drug sales. verbal abuse. contacting you after you tell him not to. thretening you. do I hear Restraining Order?

Answer 4

Seriously?  Restraining order.  Take all his c**p and throw it in the street.

Answer 5

Sounds like he is already doing the illegal drugs and becoming totally irrational. If you don't have children with him, change your phone numbers. If it continues or gets worse get a restraining order. Good luck.

Answer 6

I wouldn't go for the restraining order so fast but I would move if at all possible and definitely get my cell number changed so he could not have any contact with you at all. You seem to be the one doing ok after him leaving so just forget him and move on hun! Maybe when he says the bad things he may be using the drugs he is supposed to be selling or whatever that whole deal is. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 7

You had better change your address, phone number, and leave ASAP. You do realize that when you live with or have talked to people involved with drugs this is very dangerous don't you? When hubby says ...before I regret it...that is a threat and I am quiet sure he was threatened also. Girl, there is a strong chance that you are in danger.

Answer 8

You sound like you have a great life - a tough guy husband, drugs, lies, swearing. Why don't you turn your life around and look for a decent guy to take care of you? Forget this low life and his trashy friends and relatives.

Answer 9

put charges on him!   so he dont think anymore that he is doing better than you!