I just want to know who is in the same boat as myself?

Question

I am struggling with my sexuality, i like girls a lot and want to be in a relationship and i'm a chick myself..i know its not right, i believe in jesus and in the bible it says its not right..i need to turn to him before its too late...i mean i've had boyfriends and maybe i'm just going through a phase idk...i go to g*y bars with friends and think girls and studs are very attractive to me...idk what does everyone think of this?

Answer 1

I strongly recommend you get a copy of the book I linked to below. The Bible does not say what you think it does... at least, not in the original languages. The anti-g*y content in English Bibles was a "gift" from the translators. God was never anti-g*y, and there were even same-s*x marriages recorded in the Hebrew Old Testament!

Answer 2

Sweety here's the thing.  Who you are is absolutely fine.  There's nothing wrong with you at all.  I even know of a minister who is g*y...idk if it's a guy or girl but this person devoted their life to trying to find exact proof that g**s are bad and there's not really an mention specifically.  I mean there's the leviticus that says you can't but that was a holiness code for priest 3000 years ago.  Other than that there's no real evidence that god hates g**s.  

Be cool with who you are.  There's nothing wrong with you and don't pay attention to what anyone says cuz it's none of their business who you are.  If you like girls, go with girls.  

Answer 3

I have a L*****n couple friend that goes to church and they are very relegous! Its not a sin! There are g*y friendly churches

Answer 4

i dont think you should try to change who you are just because you think god dissaproves of ittt,,

if you can see yourself in a relationship with another girl than go for it,,

nothing should hold you back from your curiousity,,

or your feelingsss.

you are who you aree,,

and dont let anyone tell you that its wrongee,,

or not right because the bible says so.

Answer 5

i am not a religious person at all and i don't read the bible.. and i don't know about God, i'm somewhat skeptical.... for some reasons i think he does exist but to be honest mostly cuz of religious person i sometimes doubt it... i think religiuos people grab onto God to get away with whatever they want... they decide what to accept and what not...

but if u believe in God and u r as religious as u say u r... don't they "teach" that "God loves us all the way we are?"

if that's true, he will love u whetehr u love guys and girls or just girls or just guys...

i think they also say "love others as u would love urself" or something like that... so why can't they take their own advise and just let other people live their lives?  

Answer 6

First of all Jesus never condemned homosexuality...

And the Bible mentions it about 6 times, while it condemns heterosexuality about 600 times.

It`s very possible to be christian and g*y so don`t let that keep you from being who you are!

Answer 7

happened to me occassionally but you know what, just go with your feeling. Don't let some bible book written by human to control your life. I dont' really care what people think of me anyway. I like both male and female

Answer 8

I think God made you who you are, so you're perfect just the way you are, honey. Don't beat yourself up over something that is inherent in you.

Answer 9

im in almost the same boat im a L*****n and no your prob not in a phase if your sexually atraccted to them. if your drunk and attracted to them thats prob just because your drunk not L*****n. and i had no clue it said in the bible (im athiest) its not rite because it is rite and if it isnt then if you say you so religios then in your eye i guess you could be doing something rebelious  like you cant help it if your g*y its just how it is

Answer 10

Your sexuality is who you are and that is gods gift to you. You may be bisexual or g*y and this is normal. You know in your inner heart which s*x you desire. Just live your life and be happy who ever you are.