I keep dreaming of my crush from school but Im in a happy relationship...?

Question

Ive been with my gorgeous fiance for nearly 3 yrs, I love him with all my heart and we have a 7mth son son 2gether and Im really happy. In fact I cant believe Im with such a nice guy,

however the last few months since my son was born I have been dreaming about my crush from school, I really fell for him while I was in school, I once asked him out, he thought about it for two days and then said no as he didnt like me in that way, he then asked this girl out who I hated which killed me inside. The dreams Im having involve us 'nearly' getting together, we flirt ect, we go for the kiss and then I wake up. One of the dreams I had was with my fiance in a funny kind of way giving me permission to go with him.

Im scared the feelings are flooding back, I find myself checking his facebook often, I dont wanna ruin the relationshop with my fiance, hes made me the happiest I have ever been but these dreams are really playing on my mind

Help!!

Answer 1

actually,,,you should choose who you love most,,

honestly for me If I were you I'll choose your fiance..

Answer 2

omfg get over your crush. he rejected you so why do you still like him?

your about to get married godddddddd if you have feelings for some other guy then break it off with your fiance, its not fair that you having feelings for someone else and you have a fiance. thats messed up. i wouldnt want to be in your fiance's shoes.

Answer 3

follow your heart, but be rational!! don't start freaking out just because your having dreams about him again...try not to focus on it too much. try thinking about something different....pay the least amount of attention to your crush and more to your fiance. and maybe you should talk to him about it, i mean, your fiance....i don't know. unless he would get real jealous, then don't...

*sigh*....why should some crush get in the way of a beautiful relationship? i mean, which is most important to you?

Answer 4

maybe your just horny, idk :S

Answer 5

The dream suggests that you are at a stage of your life where you are looking back to a simpler time.  The fact this guy rejected you in that way also probably adds an element of desire to the picture.   I would disagree that there is no sexual aspect to the dream.  This does not mean you are horny but it does indicate some type of sexual frustration in your current situation.  This could simply relate to your being a relative new parent.

It also interesting that you husband somehow gives you permission to be with the other guy which also suggest some type of conflict in your feelings about your husband that are likely related to some sexual issue.

Just let the dreams be what they are and you already know that acting on these dreams would be a mistake.   Instead, you need to talk more with your husband to resolve whatever problems you are denying.

Let me know if this helps.

Answer 6

Its probally because that dude was your first love or something.

Idk.

Everyone needs a bit of strange every know and then.