I keep having a very disturbing dream?

Question

In this dream, my longstanding boyfriend Chris, is cheating on me with another man. I want to know what this could mean. The dreams are very vivid and I almost always wake up crying. They happen almost every night now. Am I overreacting and giving the dreams too much credit? I've looked for answers in books but found nothing. Please help, its becoming quite the problem.

Answer 1

You fear that your boyfriend is g*y or his job keeps him away from you so much that you resent his boss.

Answer 2

Cheating  

A warning to play it straight. If, in the dream, the dreamer is cheating, he should watch out for someone trying to cheat him. If the dreamer is being cheated, he can expect a stroke of luck.

Astrological parallel: Pluto



Infidelity  

1. If the dreamer is the one being unfaithful, then he is dealing with feelings of guilt over an apparent betrayal.

2. If an actual lover is the one being unfaithful, then this indicates the dreamer's insecurities over the relationship. The partner may or may not actually be unfaithful, but either way the dreamer needs to deal with her feelings.

3. If an unknown figure is the one being unfaithful, then the dreamer needs to be more discriminating with regard to who she calls friend.

Astrological parallel: Mars/Pluto combinations

Answer 3

Could it be that you are just obsessing about something that really is not there?  This could just be a fear that you have and the dreams are the only way to release it.

Answer 4

To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship.

Answer 5

hahahahaha that's funny. it may mean he's g*y or he just has been away from you for a while.

Answer 6

I don't think this is about him cheating, as it was a g*y affair and you know he is not g*y. Maybe you feel in some way though that  he is letting you down or himself or both of you down? Or not doing as much as you feel he could in the relationship. does he not have the same principles and core values as you? Maybe you never admit it or couldn't say it to him, but you feel it deep down. If so, speak up otherwise resentment will build up.

Answer 7

it could be your instinct telling you he's cheating on you. talk to him about it.

Answer 8

You like things your way ; and right now things are not the way of satisfying you ; he has no job ; that's one thing who is bothering you ; and there something else ; that you are keeping almost secret ; and it makes you wander ; sometimes what you should do with all this and what would be a great solution