I keep having dreams about my ex...

Question

This is a serious question for someone to to help me out and not make rude comments.. Anyways I have been broken up with my ex for a little over 3 years know it was extremely hard for me to get over him I was a very depressed person and finally I got over it I started getting about again and now I am truly happy.. I met a man that I fell in love with .He treats me like a princess and we are getting married next year. we have a house together and we both are very happy.. But lately I have been having dreams about my ex in my dream we are together" boyfriend and girlfriend" and in my dreams he treats me so good and loves me.. Then I wake up I totally forget about it then later in the day I remember my dream.... My question is am I dreaming of him because "maybe" Ii still have feelings for him deep down inside somewhere>??? Or is it just because he was a big party of my life at one time?? I don't know I am confused ... Has this happen too anyone else??

Thanks!

Answer 1

ok i think your dreams is your conscience telling you maybe you still have feelings ask him for a lunch talk a lil and then fgo on and ask questions about each others life

Answer 2

i can relate too this... except not in dreams just in person. i believe it might possibly be feelings. more then likely their is that one un noticicable part of him that sparked your relationship and u miss it. either way avoid it bcuz u have found something better. thats the way im going. my new gf rightnow has been the best thing since like anything for me. and thts prob how it is for u with ur husband.

for advice. i would fight your dream. and force yourself too dream of sumthing different. thts how i control those thoughts and for me it works.. just hope it does 4 u too.

Answer 3

I would say it something to do with you finally accepting that you have moved on.  Has something happened in your life recently that has made you think about your past and what you could/would/would change????

I used todream about my ex, and out it down to the fact that a close friend had 6 months to live and was going over her past contacting old friends etc to make the peace before she passed away (I suppose it got me thinking about my past and ex)

The most important thing is, is that your happy and in love with your new partner.  Hope the wedding goes all well

best wishes

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