I keep having dreams of an ex Friend that I had since we were very little....

Question

the reasons why I am no longer friends with her is because:

1. she hardly ever has anything nice to say. Ex. when she looks like i tell her that she looks nice, but with me she always has to say something negative, for example, "my mom says only people that gave birth has big butts" (because i have a perky butt lol), and I just find that rude.

2. she tells people my secrets.

There are other factors also in my decision to cut her out of my life. I just want to know why I keep having dreams of her in them. We knew each other ever since we were about in junior high school up till we were about 20 years old. I am 21 right now.

Answer 1

Could be there's something unresolved yet.  Sometimes when we end

relationships, we don't end it as well as we could have.  Maybe to let them know why it was necessary for us to do that, and to wish them well.  There is something to be said for ending things well.  It's not easy, but it's the high road.

Answer 2

It sounds as though you miss her but really, you have made a sound decision to distance yourself from her.

Answer 3

It sounds like you miss her, but then you think its better to go away from her. Maybe Call her or something just to see how she is and maybe the dreams will stop?