I keep having nightmares about losing loved ones ans death.?

Question

Th first dream I had was that my bf was cheating on me and that he left me for his ex. I know that would never happen we have been together for a yr and a half and his ex lives in a different state now. I cant get this dream out of my head, I woke up in tears. The next dream was that my sis was in a car accident and she had to have her overies and one kidney taken out. Then last night I dreamed that I was back in middles school which was a long time ago I am 20 now, anyways I got in an argument with old friends and I went to thye bathroom and was crying really hard then I cut my wrists. Then the next part of the dream my mom came to get me and then took me out to eat. It seemed like no one cared that I was bleeding. I use to never dream and now I do like every night. What could all f this mean?

Answer 1

dreams are usually caused by stress and or the last thing you think about before you sleep . you are probably worried about what people will think if you do something out of the ordinary and the dreaming every night is probably stressed so before you go to bed try to think of peaceful things

Answer 2

Your dream has some serious elements that suggest not only stress in your life right now but the possibility of some depression going on.

You may have some anxieties about a feeling of lack of attention.  This can happen for many reasons - busy-ness with unhappy tasks, preoccupation and stress over bills or realtionships, school, job - you name it.  Others may seem indifferent as you struggle and that hurts when you are down.

Your dream even reaches back to a time when you may have had other similar episodes - and unfinished business from that time, some of it perhaps unpleasant with others who argued or made you feel left out of things.  Re-visiting school in dreams is the classic harbinger of looking back on something that was not satisfactory in some way.  Yours seems related to what is happening now, and that you may feel that troubles today either resemble or stem from things in the past.

While your mom provides a meal she seems indifferent to something that seems life-threatening to you.  This suggests that she may have a history of not catching on to what you tried to express at times about unhappiness in life.  This may have transferred a bit to your boyfriend today - and you need to consider whether you are truly, openly asking others for help when you feel down.  Many people don't 'read signs' very well and depend on rather direct asking - that may help.

Your sister's accident and injuries suggest concern for her and the potential for loss of one who is supportive and may understand you better than others.  In way her predicament is actually likely a reflection of the compromises you see heaped on yourself through perceived neglect or misunderstanding.

Do consider whether there may be some depression going on and seek help if it is persistent and makes you feel low or badly for a long period of time, like days on end or weeks.  Try talking more openly to those around you about what may be bothering you.  If that doesn't help you can move on to get some medical attention - the only shame there is in not getting it if you need it, so do not hesitate if that becomes needed.

I hope some of this may help shed some light for you and that you find happiness.

All the best to you.

Answer 3

well when you have reacuring dreams about having a close friend die it means: "it is likly that you are subconciously reflecting the clearing of worries about this person or you are awareness of change in a person who has  had an impact on you" - book called dreams