I keep having these bad dreams about my boyfriend Cheating?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years. In the first year of our relationship, it was so hard for us to hang out so we hardly saw each other.During that year he cheated on me various times, and when i found out, i got so mad and let another boy kiss me, but nothign else. i know alot of u are gonna say u should have broke up with him. yes i should have but i love him and decided to give hiim another chance. I love this boy and now that we actually see each other every single day, im sure hes not cheating and hasnt been in a while. I forgave him but im still insecure and cant really trust him anymore. For a long time now i have been having these dreams that i see him with another girl, its always a different girl though and i dream that he doesnt even care if i find out or if im mad at him for seeing him with another girl.In my dream i always get angry and cry, i wake up feelign so down. Could it be my insecurity? or could this dream actually mean something? Thank u

Answer 1

It sounds like you are just worried about this since it already happened to you once and you're afraid he'll cheat on you again. But just talk with him and tell him how you feel and about these dreams and let him know how much it's getting to you. I hope things work out between you!

Answer 2

aks him is if he has been cheating

Answer 3

Those dreams that you are having are all because of your insecurities. Also what you think of & worry about during the day you dream of at night.Trust me, its nothing but a dream. If you stop thinking about him cheating on you & worry about it, you wont have these dreams. I dream of my boyfriend cheating on me all the time, but its only because since i constantly think about it soooo much..i dream of it!

good luck <3

Answer 4

Yes, It sounds like your Insecurity is driving you nuts!!!

Answer 5

Once a cheater always a cheater. You will never trust him, and you will always second guess him. You shouldn't be with him, because literally you're so down on yourself because of his actions that it's creeping into your dreams. Your hidden fears. It's not going to go away until you're not with him and your confidence is rebuilt. Sorry if it's not something you want to hear, but I have personal experience in this area.

Answer 6

once a cheater always a cheater

they dont come up with these sayings for nothing

its your own fault for being stupid and taking him back

Answer 7

Cheating and deception in dreams point to adultery. Who is doing it! I don't know.

Answer 8

u gotta talk to him about it all, let him kno how ur feeling, but dont let him know ur so insecure or he will take advantage of that fact

Answer 9

To me honestly I think those your fears being reflected in your dreams. Obviously you love him but because he has done ti in the past you are insecure and do not trust him doing it again. I suggest you tell him how you really feel and getting it out of your system. If he is a good boyfriend he will reassure you and find some way to boost your self esteem and prove to you the only woman he desires is you.