I keep having these dreams?

Question

where i will dream about a guy i will never have. it is the same guy everytime. and it keeps getting more intimate and stuff. and now i really really like him because of my dreams. why does this happen.

plus it is a celebrity i am dreaming about so i know it will never happen! haha

does anyone else ever do this?

Answer 1

Yes happens to a lot of people, but you need to assure yourself that this is just a fantasy life, you don't know the real person he is, he could be a complete jerk to his girlfriends, you'll never really know for sure.

The problem is you're projecting all your desires onto this person, this usually comes hand in hand with depression about your current circumstances, or something of the likes, if not, maybe you're just obsessing from something you desire such as a boyfriend (or maybe in your case, husband).

I've done this from time to time, I've learned to differentiate between the two with ease now, but it still happens from time to time, bugs the h**l out of me, *sigh*. Hope I helped.

-M

Answer 2

It's called a wet dream sweetheart.  We all do it.  You may find your pillow between your legs.  It's ok.  You may sleepwalk to the lotion cabinet.  Don't worry about it.  You may wake up only to learn that you just smoked a cigarette.  Completely normal.  You're just metamorphing into a groupie-for-the-stars.  We all have our "stars" honey.

My stars just happen to be found in a 1972 Sears catalog.