I kept telling one of my friends I didn't think my GF loved me. And now she's really sad/mad what should I do?

Question

I love her to death. I would do anything for her. I want us to be together forever.

If you're just gonna be a d**k don't answer please.......

Answer 1

im in a similar situation with my bf,i dont think he loves me,infact its probably gonna end soon.i can totally relate to you,its actually insecurity and thinking you are not good enough for her and by saying you dont think she loves you ,is a defense mechanism,so that if it is true ,and it does so happen she doesnt ,you are prepared for the hurt.

im going through exactly the same with my bf.he tells me he loves me,but i dont believ him,because he only says it ,never shows it.so i dont trust him 100%.

of course it may not be your insecurity alone,maybe shes not doing enough to show you she loves you and making you feel secure,making it her fault.

i know its hard when youre in love to see the person for what they are,but take a step back and find out of she is playing games,or not meaning what she says or if shes not genuine.

if she doesnt love you ,then youll sense that and its time to find someone who does.

try talking to her about why you feel this way and if shes not supportive ,i guess you know shes not genuine.maybe she got angry when you told someone ,because its true and she didnt like being found out ,becaue she was guilty.

i so hope she is not zstringing you along,because thats the worse thing someone can do.when you love them ,its hard,because your emotions rule your logic.

take a step back and maybe have a break form her and see if she comes to you and makes the effort,if she doesnt ,you have your answer.

i hope this helps.its exactly what im gonna do with m ybf,except mine probably won thave a happy ending.i wish you well.i really do understand what your feeling.its a horrible feeling that just takes over and you cant concentrate on anything.you cant go on like this,i hope my advice enables you to change something ,you have to put yourself first!

Answer 2

1.sit her down and have a conversation about whats making her sad/ mad

2.if she don't love you anymore then that's a hard hit you need to let it be and move on like reboot yourself as to i loved her but obviouslyy she didn't love me and i cant make her love me she can only love me for me

3.but all ways have that in your mind; why love someone if they don't love me

-if you decide the stay

4.your wasting your time and love when you could find someone who loves you for you

--****check this out the one you love don't love you but you love her but there's a girl who hasn't gotten the chance to love you and you haven't either

Answer 3

I find that if you really love someone, there comes a point when you do fear that you'll lose them.  You get a sense that they don't love you as much as you love them; that's the issue.  But don't over think it.  If she's upset that you told someone that you worried that she didn't love you, she probably feels how you feel- that you don't love her.

Buy her some flowers.  Tell her how you feel.  ( I know it sounds g*y...but it's the way things need to be done)

Answer 4

u should tell her that u just thought she didn't really love u. try to cheer her up by making all of the truth come out. women love honesty.

Answer 5

I think you shoould have a little chat with her and just talk about your feelings for her. Let her know that you absolutely to no end love her. Let her know exactly how you feel about everything in your relationship, and let her know that you will/would do anything to keep the relationship between you two like a pot holder: will be through some hot times, but in the end you cool off and will never unravel. Ask her how she feels and what her thoughts/input is/was. Just make sure she knows that you've held her back when she's fallen before, and you always will.

hope this helped(:

Answer 6

no

Answer 7

well if you really FEEL that she doesn't love you then you should address this with her. It might just be that she doesn't know how to express her love for you. or maybe you just cannot BELIEVE that a girl so wonderful actually loves someone like YOU. You are just in disbelief because she is sooooo wonderful you can believe it.

good luck!  

Answer 8

what is it she does that makes u think this about her? if its not enuf attn. then u got to realize u r not or will u ever be the only thing that makes her world go round, u maybe the main ticker but there are other things that make her go. if its bc she won't sexually pleasure u then u need to realize that s*x is not love, its lust that draws ppl to have s*x. good luck with her man!

Answer 9

I bet shes just hurt you dont believe that she really does love you.

I could imagine that making me a little upset.

Hope things work out for you!

Answer 10

Personally I'd be quite upset and hurt if my husband was telling his friends that he didn't think I loved him. That kind of information needs to go straight to your girlfriend to be worked out with her, and probably would have been best handled if you hadn't been so blunt about it either. You can bring the topic up by saying things like "Is there something more I could be doing for you? You seem a bit distant and I miss you." *shrug* I don't know the entire situation, but there's my two cents.

How to fix it? Start by admitting to her that it wasn't right for you to be telling your friend something like that and you should have taken those feelings to her first. Apologise and reassure her that she's your world, you'd do anything for her, and then ask her what you can do to make it right.

Good luck. :)

Answer 11

love is a strong word,don't make jokes...if your heart says she is the one,sooner on she'll forgive u,luv u 4ever"the heart gets wat the heart want!!!"

Answer 12

So did your friend tell ur Gf?. talk to your gf, maybe she does but is waiting for the time to tell u but if you keep pushing her it will turn her away. If you love her so much be patient.