I kno i asked already but i only got two answers can someone please please help me?

Question

I keep having dreams that my boyfriend cheats on me or leaves me what the deal with that i've been lk that for the past week or so can someone tell me what this means i would really like to kno and also i also had a dream a couple nights ago that it was the end of the world i would also lk to kno what that means plaese and thank you!!!!

Answer 1

I'm not sure it does mean anything; dream interpretation rather bogus in my opinion. No one knows (to my knowledge) why we dream, and there is doubtfully one salient reason why you keep having these dreams. (Books on dream interpretation are even worse because if our dreams were symbolic of the issues in our lives, an apple may not mean innocence to everyone. Some people have never seen apples--how would they magically conjure an image of one in their sleep?)

No one really likes this answer though, so I could give you a few possibilities as to the "reason" you're dreaming this:

-It is something you fear and your mind is exploring what it may feel like and preparing potential actions

-Gathering thoughts from recent days, your brain randomly assorts images and concepts and distorts them, again in a relatively random fashion

If you're like most people, you probably think about your boyfriend a lot, so it makes sense that he creeps up in your dreams. There was some sort of study I heard about where people played Tetris a bunch before they went to bed, and they started saw the floating pieces during REM (the time you dream). Personally, I don't even think it needs to be a major insecurity, just a possibility.

As for the end of the world, again, I wouldn't worry about it. There is no doubt our race will destroy itself and our planet, but I don't think that will happen for another few years.

Answer 2

You are paranoid your boyfriend is or will cheat on you

Answer 3

Your boyfriend cheating on you/leaving you signifies your own insecurities that this could actually happen. Maybe your relationship is tenuous or you feel that there is a possibility that this would happen. The end of the world dream relates to this because if he cheated on you/left you, it may seem like the end of the world to you. Maybe you rely on him or are so attached to him that you could not live without him. Good luck with this.

Answer 4

Dreams are mixed up and sometimes weird looking copies of our real life thoughts and recordings of events. Having a dream that a boyfriend cheats on you means that you don't trust him or you are paranoid that such a thing could happen. Whoever tells you that some supreme being is feeding you information at night is an inbreed.

Answer 5

if your situation will be like mine, then i highly doubt that your dream is now giving you hints that your BF has another one aside from you and the end of the world would mean, the end of your relationship with him.

*i always do dream about it if my BF has another and later ending in break-up. i just hope that yours is not like mine as it hurts, but better to know sooner than later.

Answer 6

These are just normal dreams of fear and worry.   Everyone has dreams of natural disasters or the world ending.  Sure, we know bad things have happened and will happen again, but just dreaming it doesn't mean it about to happen right this minute.

Unless you have good reason to believe your boyfriend might be cheating, don't worry about it.  If you do... this dream is just  your worries.  If they can't keep you up, they creep into your dreams.

In neither case does the dream mean it's happening or about to happen.  

Many dreams DO mean something.  Some of them just reflect our own fears and worries.  Unless the dream is telling you something you don't already know or already worry about, there's nothing new in them for you to add to your list of worries, right?

Spend some time listening to some soothing music before bed... maybe soak in a nice bubble bath or something.  Spend some time praying and asking God to give you wisdom for all your problems and to help you have peaceful sleep.  Ask Him to help you with your dreams, that they will be less of your own worries, and more filled with wisdom or just plain comfort.

God bless you!

Answer 7

obviously ur dream reveals that u don't trust ur boy friend

Answer 8

Well, you are anxious and worried about something. There are at least two possibilities.

1. You've noticed something that makes you think your boyfriend is cheating or getting ready to leave you, but you are in denial. You discounted it or refused to see it, but your subconscious knows better and is trying to get your attention so you deal with it.

2. Probably the more likely scenario is that you are not feeling good about you. Something has happened to shake your faith in yourself, to make you feel like you aren't worthy of your boyfriend so you're thinking he'll probably look for someone else.

The end of the world dream goes with either scenario. It's a doom dream which means you are feeling like your world is going to crash around you. The problem is that if you let yourself think that way for too long, you could actually cause it to happen... self-fulfilling prophecy.

So take a good long look at yourself first. Have you recently failed at something or done something so stupid you really regretted it or had your confidence undermined by someone else? You may need to do some soul searching and figure out how to rebuild your confidence in yourself and your hope that life can be good. Faith and hope go hand in hand.

If that's a dead end, then I'd be looking really hard at my boyfriend.