I know I'm not straight, but am I g*y or bisexual?

Question

I'm 30 years old, and have only been intimate with men. I find women attractive, but I don't know that it is sexual attraction. For example, if I watch straight p**n, I'm usually imagining that I'm in her position...not his.

I could picture myself in a relationship with a woman, but I'm afraid when it comes down to it...that I'm not as sexually attracted to them as I am with men.

Does that make me g*y, or does it mean I'm bi, but more sexually attracted to men?

Answer 1

Yeah, you are definitely g*y.  

Answer 2

r u a guy or a girl?

Answer 3

Wait.....

are you a guy or a girl?

I thought you were a girl cause you said you've only been intimate with men. But then you said something about when you watch p**n, you imagen your in her position...so that makes me think your a guy wanting to be nailed by a guy. But then in the end, your all like..."i would picture myself with a women, but not sexually attracted to them."

So I am going to take it that your a woman. And that you are not bisexual or g*y...but just get turned on diferently. I am the same way. (I am a girl despite the name "guy t") I date guys, but sometimes I think about girls, but not really sexual. It's rather confusing, but if your anything like me...your straight, with just some bi-curious turn on's.

Answer 4

Its possible that you could be bi but more sexually attracted to men. I have the same dilemma, except I'm a girl who doesn't find men very attractive, i find girls extremely attractive though. I understand how it can feel a little weird being with a woman or in my case a guy, but in your case i would try to focus on the person not their gender.

Answer 5

ur homo sexual...gud luck with that

Answer 6

you are abit confused which is normal maybe u want to try different things? maybe you should go out with a girl see how you feel about it and if you dont like it then stick with men. hope this helps x

Answer 7

honey you're bi....i have a friend who is exactly like you. and he's bi. he likes girls but is more attracted to guys (sexually)

Answer 8

try it with a women and yull be ablle ot tell hwa yu really like

Answer 9

your a bi

Answer 10

you're straight as a circle

Answer 11

lol,,, you are a funny man...I guess you want to know your place in the animal kingdom. Let me ask you one question, how many g*y or bisexual animals that you know of? I am sure the answer is none. Scientist are trying to prove it is different but it is not. Nature has its laws and every species obey it but not human.

My thought to you is, obey nature. You were not born to be g*y or bisexual, you were born to be a man, a human being. Just go outther and have fun with women.

Answer 12

MY personal opinion is your g*y. I can't fathom you having a long term relationship with a women....

Answer 13

Your probly biosexual.. but i suggest that you go for wonen.. your friends wont be frigthend or think your gross.. and you cna have a marriage without mo  ving to sanfransico.... you can have a life long family matver where you will have kids and all...

If the p**n makes you think about gettting laid by a man... trying to think the other way around.. and eevrntually you can change the way you feel..

Personally I would rather be friends with a straight guy than a g*y...

just think when you werre a boy you probly thought about owmen or watched straight p**n.. well you probly never thought about being with men..

If you marry a man there is no life set out to you.. you are a total freak to society.. people point laugh and walk away gigiling...

You cannot have kids unless you addopt them.. in which the kid would be embarresed for lifeif he or she had 2 dads... a girl wouldnt have anything women to talk to about her female problems and a guy would be made fun of around his friends... so as a g*y you would be completely attached to your husband and your job.. no family (kids) and your parents sould be discouraged.. Just thin kabout what I am saying...

its harder to find a high paying job and you.. It snot about sexiest vit sjust people think of g**s as desingners and in woman buisnesses

if you werebiosexual.. what can you do all your life? wind and grind every good loooking person out there... if your attracted to women try to caange the way you itematily think about them and trust  me your life will be a whole lot better...

At 30 years old.. you can still change.. your not too old..  so t hink please about what I said because your not even half way thourugh your life...

and if you change like how i told you too... this is a new beggining  for the rest of your life.

Answer 14

youre confused

stick with guys

Answer 15

you r straight

Answer 16

sounds like your 70% g*y and 29% straight and 1% other

Answer 17

It sounds like you're a bottom.

Answer 18

You have to think hard (I know I'm sure if this is probably a lot easier said than done) but maybe if you had to, absolutely HAD to decide one s*x to be with which would it be? If you simply cannot decide then you are probably bi sexual.

It's odd that you're still so confused at 30, this must be really difficult for you!

I'm assuming you don't feel that you feel as though you might be a woman trapped inside a mans body seeing as you don't mention it anywhere. Unless when you say you that when you p**n you imagine being in the woman's position you mean you would be happier being a woman?

Answer 19

I think you are bi

Answer 20

yea your g*y

Answer 21

g*y

Answer 22

Well it doesn't hurt to try to date a female. Maybe that will clear your mind and see what you like.

g*y STRAIGHT AND BISEXUAL are just labels. You are who you are.