We've been friends for 21 years. We're like sisters -seen each other through EVERYTHING. Been there for every birthday, birth, divorce, remarriage, children's wedding etc. We've been each other's main friend. Talk everyday. We've each had other friendships, but none as close. -So my friend became friends with a work mate during the last year or 2. At first it was occasional --dinner, etc. The past 6 months they've become very close. I call and she's out with her. I go to my friend's family gatherings and she is there. Wouldn't be bad if I liked her, but I don't. She's loud, rude, everything has a sexual innuendo and she's overall unpleasant. This is not just my opinion. So I don't get it. And YES I am jealous-won't lie. She'll invite the friend to something we have planned-and not tell me until it's too late. She says it'd be easier if I like her friend-but I truly don't. I've been pulling away because I feel hurt and I'm angry. I just can't get past it. Anyone else felt this way?
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