I know I shouldn't feel bad but I do...why do I feel bad?

Question

My brother is like a skater dude and stuff (He's 19) and there's this guy who used to go to my school (were 15). Anyway this guy is a real jerk. he thinks he's better then everyone cuz his family has a lot of money. So he feels as though he can treat others however he wants..(his whole family is like that) today him and my brother got into an argument at the skate park and he called me fat (wich he is like HUGE btw) and I know im not fat cuz I used one of those bmi cacluator thingies. but it made me cry today and i feel soo bad...please help me not feel bad :(

Answer 1

I bet you are gorgeous and he's just jealous =]  

Answer 2

Don't Listen To What People Say Especially Snotty Kids Like That

Answer 3

Honey don't let some stupid boy get you upset.  It hurts hearing things like that, even if they aren't true (and I'm sure it's not true about you..)  People just say silly things like that in order to make themselves feel better, they get some sick pleasure from it.  I'm sure he was just trying to p**s your brother off, trying to get a rise out of him.  Pay him NO attention. :)  

Answer 4

Look hon, it's incredibly easy for small-minded people to judge and make fun of others (even when it's unmerited, or has no basis in reality).

I don't know if you're fat or not, and it really doesn't matter. He said it to make himself feel better, whether he has an issue with his own size or just likes feeling powerful over people.

No one likes to hear something negative directed towards themselves. I know it's kinda hard to just let something like that go, but you really need to.

Don't let his insecurities and power trips make you feel like less of a person. Label him as a jerk (as you have) and ignore him. Let it be, and take pride in the fact that you don't have to be a b*tch to feel good about yourself!

Answer 5

You feel badly because this guy is older and thinks he can treat you anyway he wants. My friends older brother and all his guy friends treat me really badly and makes me feel bad even though i know they are idiots. Dont worry you will heal soon