I know a bi guy who has two relationships at the same time is this mean?

Question

I know a bisexual guy who has a girlfriend in san francisco and a boyfriend in new york is this mean? and they dont know about each other. While its his buissness i feel there is something special about monogoamy.

Answer 1

ive always seen stuff like that as cheating.

i couldnt be with someone who could ever even imagine themselves with somebody else.

it would just breakk my heart..

Answer 2

Provided he's not in a monogamous relationship, he may date anyone he chooses...what's the problem...  It sounds like you may be a wee bit jealous...

Answer 3

my bi friend does that too but another thinks its cheating. it depends on what veiw you look from

Answer 4

It doesn't matter if he is bi, jugglin' two people is not cool at any level, especially if they are both serious about him.

Answer 5

It's not mean, nor cheating if everybody knows about each other. I think monogamy is pretty awesome, but other people might not think the same. Having relationships with two people at the same time might be what this guy wants and needs, and as long as everybody knows about what is going on then that's fine.

Answer 6

I agree being g*y or bi does not give you the right to cheat on people and sleep around like there is no tomorrow. I also believe monogamy is the way and if a boyfriend ever cheated on me i don't care how much i loved them they are out the door.  

Answer 7

YES THATS MEAN! its sad too.

Answer 8

Yes, if you're in a relationship with more than one person, it is considered cheating, regardless of sexual orientation.  

Answer 9

yep...that would be considered cheating if they don't know about each other!

Answer 10

it means he's a player and a cheater and a *** .  

Answer 11

The guy is a dishonest s*****k.  

Answer 12

i do that but i make sure that both parties involved know about it and are comfortable with it