I know every mother love their baby but actually how many?

Question

mothers out there are crazy about their baby ? Ok i dont know if this is normal or not but i am obsessed with my daughter . i love her way too much . like when i go to pick her up fom her nap i like to hold her and squeeze her so tight . i love to get half naked with her while she is naked too so we can hold each other skin to skin like a kangourou . i kiss her thousand times of the day to the point i can t really discipline her and she kinda knows that she will get away with it . as soon as he cries i go pick her up even if it means getting out of the shower with soap on . last time i wanted to time alone with my hubby so we took her to my sis house or the night . trust me i drove there ( 30 mn drive)while she was sleeping and went and got her cause i couldnt sleep. i think i am way too crazy about her. heck i cry when she touches my face . fact: she doesnt go to daycare, i quit my job because of it .

is this normal ? i am currently prego with baby#2 but my daughter is moslty who i think about . i know i will this one too but i am scared it wont be to the same extent .

Answer 1

I thought that, too... I knew I'd love my second but couldn't imagine how I could love her as much as my first.  Trust me, you will.  It may seem impossible, but your heart just opens up more and makes room for the second.  I can't imagine our lives without her now, and love them equally.  :)  

Answer 2

no i think all mothers are like that. and you feel the same way with baby #2. my son is 3 and i was just like you so crazy, loved him. he did no wrong im my eyes. and i just had my daughter in june. and was very crazy about her. it was really, really hard getting use to having two babies i loved around. but then i notice i started getting annoyed of my son a little, something i thought i could never do. i was sad about that, then he was getting into trouble and i had to discipline him. i was an emotional wreck. cause then i started feeling like i had more love for my daughter and i was not as close to my son. well i guess it was all the hormones cause 2 months later everything is back to normal with my son and me.  

Answer 3

Enjoy it while it lasts cause they grow up too fast these days.  My 3 yr old no longer wants the kisses and cuddles all the time and so my hubby and I have to sneak it in with playing wrestling!  And no worries about #2 cause you will do the same.  I know I kiss and cuddle my second child all the time.

Answer 4

When I went to the hospital in labour with my 2nd, I felt so bad being away from my son that I made them let him in, and I thought there was no way I could possibly love my second as much as I loved my first! But they are 3 1/2 and 2 now, and I love them both to the ends of the earth, it took a little bit longer with the second, because I just felt so bad for my first for being away from him and having to spend time with the baby instead of him, but don't worry, it will come!

Answer 5

Im with ya.  I love my daughter unconditionally, so much it hurts.  Now that you've experienced the love a mother has for her child, how could you NOT love your second as much??  You will.  I wouldnt worry.  Good luck to you!

Answer 6

I love my kids unconditionally too.  

Answer 7

There is nothing wrong with loving your daughter.  You can't love her too much!!  

I love my son and would do anything for him.

Answer 8

When you have a second (or third) child, you do not have to divide your love between the two.  Your heart grows!

Answer 9

No nothing wrong with that at all, it's good she knows she's loved.