I know im a cheater im so confused help me?

Question

hi im 29years old i have only 1daugter she is 8 years old now and my husband work in u.s.a for 10 years he visit me once a year.and everytime hes with me he treated me a sexsimble.he like to s*x with me all the time even i dont like he dont respect what i said.the years go fast and i realize im not happy to my marrage life i feel alone and i meet someone to comport me when i feel sad and chear me up he respect me alot. now im deeply in love with him so we deside to leave together now im 8 months pregnant.my husband is coming to visit us what should i do?i really dont love my husband im so confuse

Answer 1

That's not a marriage Idk what you would call that get a divorce.

Answer 2

OMG, you played with fire and you will get burned. Let your husband know before he gets there, or else someone might get hurt.

Answer 3

Let your husband know your pregnant with another mans child that should solve  everything.  

Answer 4

where is the point of confusion if you love your bf now and ur having he`s baby?..u said it urself ur not happy with husband anymore.least u cuold do is not for urself but for his daughter to you,gave ur daughter the bestest thing her parents cud do even separated,then give the same love you have for ur new baby to come,girl u shud think more for ur kids,now that ur happy as u said.they have the same right of happiness as u do.cherish ur bf now and try to stay together forever happy

Answer 5

. when your husband doesn't treat you right it doesn't mean that you have to do the same, you should at least thought of your kid, prior to that you should file a divorce earlier, and now your pregnant to another man you just create another problem.

Answer 6

Why are you still with someone that you never see?  I don't even feel it's really a marriage, or at least I wouldn't feel married period if I seen someone 10 times in ten years.  You should have divorced him years ago.  Tell him what has happened and why, then let him go.  

Answer 7

Divorce him oin the grounds of abandonment for most of the year. It will be granted. Then date as much as you want or remarry someone who comes home regularly.This is a no brainer.

Answer 8

Why should you hired your feeling. If you no longer love him than you should talk to him. Tell him what you think and what you want.

Get yourself a lawyer and file for divorced.

Honesty is the key. Some time the true is hurt but it is doesn't hurt as much if you speak out loud. it is not something you can say supprise.

Answer 9

File for divorce and move on.

I don't see how a marriage is a good marriage if you only see your husband once a year. That's not marriage. You need someone there with you all of the time.  

Answer 10

You divorce him and move on. You can't expect for him to feel sorry for you when you're doing things like this and getting pregnant too, perhaps maybe he doesn't need a woman like you either...it's time to let go.

Answer 11

File for divorce papers.

Answer 12

divorce

Answer 13

You better tell him before he comes to where you are, he will see whats going on.