I know it's unhealthy...but has anyone ever been inlove with someone that pisses them off?

Question

Ok...so I had a small attitude today, but I was sure I didn't show it to him much... maybe a little. But, I still talked to him nicely. Anyway, I had told him on Monday and Thursday AND this morning, that I was going to go out to lunch--Blimpie. If he wanted something, let me know.

Well, someone else in the office said they were ordering from elsewhere, so when he saw me before lunch, WHAT did he ask??? "Are you still going to Blimpie?" Now, he KNEW I was already pissed this morning, and asking me DUMB questions wouldn't help! Well, I give him an almost dirty look, because WHY would I say I am going to Blimpie for three freaking days and suddenly change my mind??

Well, he sees my face and starts yelling. (which tells me he KNEW I was aleady not feeling great attitude wise) He yells... "Don't get an attitude! They said they were ordering out! I just wanted to know if you were still going!" Keep in mind, we don't work on diffrent floors. If I wanted to change, I would have just walked the 50 feet to tell him....

There was NO REASON for him to get this pissed, and stomp off! But, the sexual tension between us is huge. We've had 'moments' like this before. Wanting to hit each other rather than talk it out. All we do is run around being 'polite' when I know he wants to grab me! But it gave me the giggles knowing I can p**s him off that quick! He never gets mad at anyone...so, I know I push his buttons. I know it's because he wants me...he looks me in the eyes and our conversations are intense.

I know this isn't healthy, but does it say we have alot of passion for each other OR do we instead both really need anger management classes?

Answer 1

A bit of maturity would go a long way here...this is your place of work? Someone's going to get the sack soon. Forget it and grow up.

Answer 2

Go to his office and s*x each other up you w***e.

Answer 3

Well, I thought I had an exciting life.  You plan Blimpie's days in advance, and announce it.  And gee, have I ever known a woman to change her mind?  Let me think?  Or maybe he thought you might prefer the other place to your sandwich palace.  Is this real or one of your fictional accounts.  But get to the good stuff.  Tell us how you know he wants to grab you, throw you down and ravage you, while acting polite, denying his passions.  You give him dirty looks, you push his buttons, but you want him.  Which one of you is going to break this tension.  Is he afraid? You can be so mercurial.  How long can you restrain yourself at the office.  Where nearby is the closest hotel.  What are you doing for lunch Monday?

Answer 4

go for the anger management classes.

Answer 5

There is not physical fighting so that's good for your bodies, but as long as neither of you harbor negative feelings over little spats, it's fine.