I know it could be mean, but can i get him back?

Question

Three weeks ago I had a party. A friend Z brought his friend M. Me and M hooked up. Well after I got grounded and so I couldn't chill with M for 3 weeks. M is now not officially but kind of dating this girl E. i don't know E, but my best friend who is kinda but not really dating Z, said she really likes E and so she doesn't want to hear my thoughts. Well now i'm free and I think I wanna see about a thing with M cause I really liked him. Its hard for me to find a decent guy. Well sense M is kinda with E I'm thinking my chances are gone... but I think i may have caused this. Right after we hooked up i straight up said is this just a hook up or do you wanna be friends w/ benefits, i didn't even say anything about a relationship cause i was a little intoxicated and didn't realize my feelings, and also it was kind of a wierd deal, so i didn't want to freak him out with the relationship thing.

Well two nights ago I was talking to my bestie and she was talking to Z and Z had mentioned how when the guys were talking about that night, M had told them what I said and so thier friend B wanted to hook up with me cause i was like that. Well I'm not, it was just how and what i said didn't come out right, and so now they think i'm like that. Did this maybe mess things up with M do you think? and then also, I know its kinda mean but is there a way i could steal M from E? how to do that cause I really really like him?

Answer 1

lol man too much abc's i cant even read that im hella confused!! lol

Answer 2

roger that sir ill send in the troops to section T! ASAP

Answer 3

i think that you should  gets steel down and you need to get all of that angry out and get  a new boyfriend and see if he sees you with him if  his does kiss him and then say his name in a flirty Voice and Then  you see if he here's you and if you does then go to the mall and tthen see if he follow you and then buy a drink and share it and he go and talk to you and get back to together with you!

Answer 4

wonder, just talk to m.

just ask him what happened, and tell him your feelings.

if he decides to stick with e, then you're just going to have to cope.

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Answer 5

That's all so shameless yet very intriguing.  In retrospect I'm sure you'll laugh at yourself for wanting to fight over some guy who is probably gonna prove himself to be a loser.  Anyways, figure out what type of guy he is.  If he's a nice mannered lad (probably not), then be honest with him and tell him how you feel.  If he's a normal teenaged-boy, I'm sure you can figure out a way to take his interest away from E.  And then just tell everyone that E has herpes.

Answer 6

confusing... so what i got after 2 reads is

if Z is a guy

your best friend dating Z

but shes bi- ? so she also likes girl E

and if E goes With your best friend shell be cheating on Z

but M is also with E

B want yous, cuz M told him you was loose

and you still want M

hmm i think you ****** up

for all other answers just refer to my translation

Answer 7

What about LMNO and P?

Answer 8

You had him first and it's really annoying that E hooked up with him. Speak to M and say something like -

''Listen.....I know that you're kinda going out with E right now but I just want you to know that i do still like you... and i am up for a relationship if you ever - you know - want to hook up when you're not going out with anyone.''

This way if he likes you then he will probably end with E soon enough and come to you.

If not you don't want to split up E and M and then realize M doesn't like you and goes off with someone else - you're only ruining E's chances with him.

This seems like the best solution!

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Answer 9

you dug your own grave on this one.

if you're not a s**t, then don't behave like one.  little boys can't handle it.  

and your best friend isn't really a best friend if she's already siding with E ...and not wanting to hear your thoughts....are you kidding me?

let it alllll go.  go find another guy and don't behave in a S****y way or that is how guys will treat you.

Answer 10

lmao. :D

Answer 11

Ahhh? Yeah, its over!

Sorry so harsh, but you did what you did and now its too late.

All thanks to what? ALCOHOL. Is it worth it now?

Didn't think so huh? You need to just chill for a while. Don't do anything to break M from E cause that will just make it worse. It'll make you seem like a bad person, and you've already done enough. Just chill for a while and things can go back to normal.

Answer 12

I think you need to grow up and quit trying to steal anyone from anybody.  You may end up with the guy for a short time, but long term, healthy relationships are going to be based on trust, openness, and honesty.  You'll also cause a lot of damage with the other girls in your life - none of them will be able to trust you around their boyfriends.

Answer 13

Rofl.  Wtf?  Ask again when you can use real names.

Answer 14

well odds are since you said that stuff when youm were intoxicated M doesnt want that he wants a real relationship so yeah that screwed it up there but ...if you wan thim back just make him realize what he is missing..make him jealous..or just be who you REALLY are and if he is the rhgt guy for you than he will COME  TO YOU!..and not trying to be rude but next time please dont use letters..use words heck nobody's gonna know who you are , and please next time dont drink than you might be then girl who is with M..good luck though with that oh and the girl who is supposed to be your best friend isnt a good one if she is siding with E already. and maybe talk to M too like say this...

i know your dating E and all but i just have to get this off my chest ..i still like you ,even though you have a gf. but just so you know if you ever wanna date or hook up(not in the s**t way btw) than  when you arent dating E or anyone else then im up for a seconmd chance.

than if he doesnt seem interested than keep being friends and if your his type he'll probbaly fall for you over time. then its all up to if you really like him..but anyway dont ruin it to soon before it begins soo dont like try to make him basically cheat on E with you because if he gets what your trying to do then he will proobbaly not ever want to date you in the near future.

                                      ANOTHER THOUGHT

maybe he is into you but he thinks you dont want a real relationship like you want a one night stand or the friends with benefits thing ..so if thats how he feels then he decided your not the right girl/woman for him..soo i suggest you sit down and just talk with him.

Soo if i think of anything else i will edit this and i hope it orks out for you and M if you guys ever date. and if you want more advie you can email me..its [e-mail].

Best wishes

♥

dezzy

ps.i wll probbaly edit soon =] i star * bc then i wont lose the question..lol . bye for now wonder1 !

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pss: dont listen to the jerks who answered =]

Answer 15

Text him or something and try to start talking with him like regular again and then be all like, do you have feelings for me or something and then, be all like, i like you or blah and then do stuff to make him go more on your side than E's side, but if it doesn't work after about a month, he's moved on.

Answer 16

your story reminds me of my civil law exam questions.

B gives 100.000 to D, D buys a car from E,E sells D's car to M.

what happens to B's mum?

lol well just move on