I know it is sad but i am a 39 year old male and have never had s*x but i now have a chance.?

Question

What do i do and how do i do it right. I don't want to die a virgin and am so scared of messing this up. PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

Depends what your "chance" is. Are you in a relationship with this girl (I'm assuming it's a girl) or are you paying some prostitute. Since you have time to write a question about it, it's obviously not something with a time frame. If it feels good to you than do it. If you're not comfortable than don't. There is someone for everybody out there. Your first time should be someone enjoyable and memorable...for the right reasons.

Answer 2

Just do it man... relax.. and when you can put yourself inside her, just do it.. if you're not sure where 'the hole' is, simply ask her to help you.. that's it..  

Answer 3

um, not trying to be nosey...but how are you getting sum at 39...where did u met this girl @...email me

Answer 4

A relationship should never be founded on s*x, it will never last. If your goal is to lose your virginity then I think you're in the relationship for the wrong reasons. If the relationship is meant to work, the s*x can come later, when you know that is the person you truly want to be with.

Answer 5

Give a year, get a job at a tech shop, and buy a bike, and you will be that real live 40 year old virgin. It worked out for that guy in the movie. Man, I de-virginated back when I was 18, and that was too long. Girls can afford to be that silly, but being a man, h**l no. Bust that nut, with anybody, even if you have to pay them.

Answer 6

Haha. You are a *****.

You will always be a *****, virgin or not.  

Answer 7

You make it sound like virginity is a desease. Im 41 but unlike u im a virgin by choice and proudly waiting till marriage.To me if its s*x before marriage its just s*x and not love making. You have my sympathy dude. hopefully u will see the value of virginity and keep it for ur wife.

Answer 8

My husband went through a similar experience and then he regretted doing it. He then waited for 7 years after wards and married me and now he gets it whenever he wants.

My advice is not to worry about it and find a wife that loves you.

Answer 9

Your so full of sh*t

Yea right a 39 yr old man who is still a virgin.

Answer 10

Ok first of all, don't tell her you are a virgin. She might find it creepy. Sorry if that is insulting to you but there it is. She doesn't have to know until afterwards, if at all. If you're worried about having no experience and doing something wrong, don't be. Let her take the lead, and you follow. If she's not the type of woman who would take the lead, then that might make it more difficult for you but what an opportunity! Do this: get comfy, kiss her and touch her for as long as she wants. One of two things will happen, she will want to move things along, at which point she will lead you. Or, you will find a good groove, and things will happen naturally. Human beings didnt evolve over millions of years because we had no idea how to have s*x. You know what to do, its a matter of being comfortable and confident. The long foreplay, the kissing and touching should engender that comfort and confidence at which point most men, probably yourself included, will know what to do.  

Answer 11

If you are really 39 and have not had any s*x, it's best not to have any now. You would find out how good it is, and would not be able to live with yourself thinking about what you missed out on.But you know, dude, I think you're just pulling everyone's leg.

Answer 12

Are you serious?  

Answer 13

Go buy some puzzy man!  

Answer 14

Keep  calm first of all. Make sure you remember to use protection. With all the STD's you need to protect yourself. Second, make sure your partner is over 18. Third, depending on your partner paid or not let her guide you. Personally, I would love to teach a virgin. And, I wouldn't be insulted if you told me you were a virgin, but that is my opinion. Take your time offer a massage let both of you relax and ease into it. Just enjoy your bodies and have fun.