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Question

im about to be 16. i was sure i was straight- and felt happy being straight. i never had any attraction to guys when younger only girls. only thing i clearly remember is that way before puberty i was horny.

about two weeks ago i wondered just becuase it came into my head like why are people g*y. and then i pictured mysefl with a guy and i can get aroused by it and get off to it. and when this happens i only picture any guy no particular person just the body the act. which makes me believe i am really horny (which i always am) and horny enough to even have s*x with guys. yet what bothers me is that i can see myself with a guy as if i was the girl. not being femimine or anything just doing the girls parts in s*x you know. if it helps before thso wondering i was happy ebing straight and never fantasized about any guys. i always daydreamed girls. yet this came into my head one day and because i can see myself taking it i now wonder if i am bisexual. btw i think this means a lot.. that when i dont worry i dont feel anything at all towards guys yet when i do worry i think i make my mind think i am. so maybe i am horny but because i have always been a person that worries i make myself trip out.... people that are g*y have said that sice they were young they knew were into the same s*x. but i grew up straight so i dont think i am. yet i still let it bother me.btw i had a friend that is a L*****n.. she told me that instead of noticing guys she noticed girls then later on she thought she was bi possibly cuz of hormones and then decided she was bi. so maybe that the way i am except i am straight now i am confused. so have any other people gone through the smae thing or did i become bisexual. btw when i am with my guy friend si dont think anything unless i worry then i imagine it and get aroused and that is when i think i would do something. well please help

Answer 1

Bottom line is, you are 16 and are a little hormone factory! The wind blowing would make you horny! If you are curious about g*y s*x or straight s*x for that matter, all you can do is experiment and see if it is something you actually like or if it's just the thought of s*x, any s*x, that makes you horny!

All too often a guy your age will be turned on by the thought of g*y s*x, but once he finds himself actually in the position to do it, he suddenly realizes he is not into it!

BTW, next time you post a question, please break your thoughts up into paragraphs! One big, long, rambling, paragraph is hard to read and you repeat yourself a number of times as well!

Answer 2

We all experience this confusion to some degree during puberty.  It's all the more confusing because just about everything turns us on during this time.  

Don't attach any significance to what you're feeling over the next 4-5 years.  Your sexual orientation will be clear to you by then, so don't spend any time worrying about this now.  You're normal - we all go through this.    

Answer 3

Lots of guys are confused about all sorts of things when they are 16 and in particular anything related to s*x

Some guys who are straight indeed to have attraction to guys but although they may have a few fumblings nothing really develops

I would suggest that perhaps when you find yourself a steady girl that all these confused feelings will go away . However it could be that you are actually bi sexual and attracted to both sexes

Try not to get too worried about this just now and go about your life getting involved in as many activities as possible . Have a wide circle of friends , both sexes and see how things settle down

Do not put yourself in a box just now that can be done much later  

Answer 4

WE COULDNT HELP YOU..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

Homosexuality

    Did you know that most people, male and female, have some homosexual (same s*x) fantasies?

    This is common and does not indicate you are homosexual. It is a fantasy, safe and harmless. Most females simply accept their fantasies, but males, who may be homophobic, react with fear or get into "g*y bashing" to prove they are "hetero". Females are generally more comfortable with homosexuality.

    Homosexuality just "is". Being homosexual is NOT a choice. Guys, think back - at what stage of your life did you consciously decide, "Well I think I will like girls?" You didn't, you just knew, you got horny just thinking about the opposite s*x - it was not a choice, you just knew. There is NO cure for homosexuality because it is not a disease and most homosexuals do not want to be "cured". They simply want what everybody else wants, the THREE BIG "A's" - Acceptance, Approval and Appreciation.

    Current research indicates that people are born homosexual. Parents may deny it, try to control kids behavior, their choice of toys or friends. Kids at about age 7 know they are different; by age 10, they are aware that they fantasize about people of the same s*x; by age 14, although most are not ready to "come out of the closet", they are aware that they are homosexual. g*y males like females as "best friends" and straight females really enjoy socializing with g*y males. This does not go over well with straight Macho males.

    Lesbians may identify as homosexual at a young age, but many, many more get into heterosexual relationships, maybe have kids, and then accept that they are L*****n at a later age.

    Here's some typical MYTHS ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY:

        * g*y males are promiscuous.

        * g*y males have a higher than normal s*x drive.

        * HIV/AIDS is a g*y disease.

        * g*y males assault little boys.

        * If a male has a same s*x experience, he must be g*y.

        * Lesbians just have not found the right man.

        * Lesbians are "butch". No, some are very feminine and call themselves "lipstick dykes".

        * Females who socialize with g*y males are "f*g Hags".

        * Most religions regard homosexuality as a sin.

    Here's a great book I recommend for anyone having trouble dealing with homosexuality - "IS IT A CHOICE?" by Eric Marcus.

Answer 6

u sir may be infact a bisexual

Answer 7

It is your choice...whether straight, bi, or just a homo...