I know its lonjg but i need your opinon - best answer gets the points.?

Question

this guys - i dont know if he HATES me or LIKES me abit.

1. he looks at me ( but now seems like he trys not to only looks when he thinks im not looking yet i can).

1. I avoid looking at him and whne his around i act like i dont care but i look at him also but he has never caught me staring at him - i have just llooked at him but he is looking when i look.

3.wen we see eachother we put this '' i am not looking at you, im uniterested '' face- we both do that.

before i look at him i make sure i ahve my angry face on and then looka t him.

when he looks at me he has no smile and has a blank expresion, more angry tho.

there are many times im standidng kind of near him with my friend and his near with his friend i turn around coz i no his there n his looking and then we both turn away.

but he seems like annoyed and i make it seem as if he bothers me YET EVERYONE TELLS HIM I LIKE HIM N HE DOSNT SAY ANYTHING BOUT ME TO ANYONE.

He hugs this girl when im around and is always with her.

I look at him with an angry face coz he knew i liked him last yr n didnt do anyhting, he seemed annoyed so i act this way as if to tell him '' i dont like u get over yourself' - BECAUSE I am using that as a guard because he somtimes looks as if i am annoying him.

Oh yeah and then last week i got to school and i had italian and i walking towards my clasroom then i saw him and 2 guys from our class walking away from the classroom so i thot we had changed room and i had to ask just incase we did and i woulodnt know where we were.i didnt know how to ask coz i never speak to him because of the situation. So i said ''oi'' in hope that the other 2 guys will answer me but they didnt hear and the guy looked at me but walked as he knew i wasnt rlly caling him the i called out again and he looked at me and i asked if he had italian and he said yeh we did and he was rlly nice- then i asked him why he was walkign the other way and not to class and he said ''coz the teacher asked me to get her some books from the libary'' as he said that he was like smiling and stuff. then i walked off.

but then yesterday i was walking with my friend n i saw the guy and his friend...his friend then nudged me and pointed at him and he saw and i smacked his friend( hu is my freind) and said shut up ben, i hate you in a joking way and ben lauged but then ben told me that when they walked off the ''guy'' said What the **** lol.

that made me confused as h**l.

maybe i am reading to much into it.

maybe he hates me coz why would he say that.

Answer 1

lol

it just sounds like theres 2 people here who dont have the confidence to talk to each other

i dont think he hates you atall

maybe he doenst want  relationship with you right now but i think you can start making friends

just ease up and be more relaxed around him

he should relax too and you might actualy get to talk

Answer 2

it seems like he might like you if i were you i would just be nice to him and if hes not nice back ask him what his problem is and why hes being such a d!ck and if he like sorry just act nice around him for a little bit then he will probaly ask u out or you can ask him if he talks c**p to you when you ask him what his problem is tell him to shove it and to stop staring at you and c**p then get your big bro or a friend do beat him up or just tell him to aleast act civilized around you

Answer 3

Maybe you should stop playing mind games with each other and express how you really feel.  Maybe this guy likes you but you can't tell if you two are being so secretive!  Just go with the flow and stay true to your feelings then you won't need to read into it or wonder if he hates you or likes you.  If you start showing how you feel he will do the same.  Guys are like that if they get a positive response from a girl they like.. he's hooked.

This is kind've out there but here are some songs to show you what I mean :)

"This is your life

Don't play hard to get

It's a free world

All you have to do is fall in love "

"Love is flower you got to let it, you got to let it grow"

Play The Game by Queen

Mind Games by John Lennon

Answer 4

WoW, now that was LONG.. Let me give u a girly girl advice ok?

A man is like a kite.. u give it some slack and let it fly free.. at the end of the day u yank his string and reel him in... then his urs to keep! Then u hang him on a hook, till u need him again. OTHERWISE, his just a player... :) so u might as-well just win it..

I think U worry too much ..y dont u leave things to fate.. u kno.. if its meant to be then it will be.. The thing is that he doesnt seem interested.. SO DUMP HIM before he dumps u silently :p..

just SEND HIM THIS LETTER SWEETY:

Dear (____rejectee's name here or; BENS FRIEND____ ),

I regret to inform you that you have been eliminated from further contention as my Mr. Right.

As you are probably aware, the competition was exceedingly tough and dozens of well-qualified candidates such as yourself also failed to make the final cut. I will, however, keep your name on file should an opening become available. So that you may find better success in your future romantic endeavors, please allow me to offer the following reason(s) you were disqualified from the competition:

__ The fact that our finest communication experience to date has been outiside Italian class. This reveals to me a thriftiness that I find unappealing.

Answer 5

Sounds to me like you are both playing games.  It is hard to read what he is thinking.  You are giving out mixed signals.  If you give him dirty looks and he likes you, he may never do anything about it.  My advice is this, either ask him out directly or ask a friend to ask him if he is interested in going out on a date with you.  Stop torturing yourself and get it over with.  If he says no, sure your feelings will be hurt, but you can then move on and stop obessing over this guy.

Answer 6

oh my God count ur looks in ur description..........

Answer 7

he likes you yall just act funny around each other and if i am wrong about him liking i kno i am right wen i say he doesn't hate you

Answer 8

He's just not into you, so move on.  It sounds like his friends may like you, but he doesn't want to lead you on, and he is avoiding you.

When a guy is into you, he's pretty obvious about it.  You have too much to offer to waste time with this guy.  Hey may be a good guy, but he doesn't sound right for you.

Answer 9

Just soften up. If you still truly like him turn that angry face into a smile. Make it a new beginning. Like when he hugs your friend.."What about me haha" would be a simple retort. Or give him a taste of his medicine. When he's hanging out with "Ben" Hug Ben. See what happens. But yeah you are giving him so many turnoffs with the angry face. When i was reading this it seemed like you were confused but happy. Give him that attitude. Not, "If you dont like me I'll kill you", Not that kind of attitude haha.