I know not 2 many ppl r going 2 answer, but what the h**l?

Question

I have a few questions that I want an answer 2. I want 2 know am I alone?

1. Do u always get signs of your period starting?

2. Y do u have signs of being pregnant, and don't b pregnant?

3. Y do have s*x when u ovulate and don't get pregnant?

4. Y do ppl who r trying 2 have a baby have 2 go through so much, and the women who don't even want a baby get pregnant and get abortion?

5. Crazy question, y do a female have a time limit on getting pregnant, but a man can have a baby well n2 his 70's?

6. I use clomid and metformin 2 get pregnant the first around, y can't my dr just give me a prescription 4 it? Y do I have 2 get ultrasounds, blood work, and all these ohter things just 2 get pregnant?

Well I guess that's all I wanted 2 know. I know u all can't give real answer's but your opinion is well needed.

OMG, please if u have any thing neg 2 say, please leave now and don't answer my questions because i don't want 2 here the neg S**t 2day.

Thank u 2 all who will answer.

Answer 1

1. Do u always get signs of your period starting?

Not really but I can't remember either. It's been 15months since my last period as I am breastfeeding

2. Y do u have signs of being pregnant, and don't b pregnant?

Because alot of the signs are similar to PMS. Also if you want to be pregnant you may be looking for things you otherwise would not have noticed

3. Y do have s*x when u ovulate and don't get pregnant?

The egg may just not have been fertilised, or been fertilised and not implanted or implanted and very early miscarriage so you would not have even known you were pregnant

4. Y do ppl who r trying 2 have a baby have 2 go through so much, and the women who don't even want a baby get pregnant and get abortion?

Ahhh... this is life I guess.. we always want what other people have don't we?

5. Crazy question, y do a female have a time limit on getting pregnant, but a man can have a baby well n2 his 70's?

Because a female is born with all the eggs she will ever have and they have a "shelf" life. WHile males produce sperm on an as needed basis

6. I use clomid and metformin 2 get pregnant the first around, y can't my dr just give me a prescription 4 it? Y do I have 2 get ultrasounds, blood work, and all these ohter things just 2 get pregnant?

The docs prob just wanna makes sure that everything is fine and that nothing has changed from last time (i.e. no physical reason you ar having trouble conceiving

Hope that helps and lots of baby dust to you.

Answer 2

1. sometimes you get..signs sometimes not depends really..i never do there is times i get cramps sometimes not...hubby says i get moody tho lol..

2. sometimes woman can think there pergnant or want it so bad they can set there mind to think that...i did...even went to the doctor..and was told that..

3. just because you have s*x on your ovulation day doesnt mean you will get pregnant just increases your odds...

4. this questions is a bit hard to answer...all i can say only god knows why hun..

5. not sure...

6.. bc they want to see if anything has changed...

i really hope the best for you..

Answer 3

I know, I tried over 2.5 years, I am finally pregnant, clomid never helped. I did see a natural doctor (herbs and suplements) and lost 10% of my body weight through diet and excersice, about 5 months into the supplements, and during my weight loss program I finally concieved.

my friend tried over 2 years, clomid didn't work, she did 2 cycles of injections, and IUI that didn't work. the third cycle she also did acupuncture, she is pregnant :)

hang in there, sometimes it takes a while, and it sucks!

Answer 4

1. yes

2. could be signs of your period

3. low sperm count maybe

4. that's a good question, I don't understand it either.

5. because women go through menapause- men don't

6. don't know this one- I suppose it may be because you have to be monitored on the medications.  

Answer 5

1. In my case, I dot have signs before my period starts. For example, cramps and sore b*****s.  But everyone is different.

2. Sometimes you have signs of pregnancy because you want it so bad, that your brain could play tricks on you.

3. Well, everyone is different. Some woman get pregnant right away, and others last longer, depending on their organism.

4. I cannot answer this, i dont know what to say... But not everyone gets abortions.. many unplanned pregnancies to keep their babies and are happy. You just have to be positive instead of being envious of other ppl.

5. I dont know  lol... Maybe sperms are stronger than old eggs..

6. I don't know about this, you should ask your dr.

If you cant get pregnant.. dont be desperate, because it will only last longer. Stop thinking about getting pregnant and just enjoy s*x and in the moment least expect it youll get prego.

Answer 6

Hmm.  Heres some answers of mine.

1- Since I started birth control this time around after my daughter was born, I never have any symptoms that my period is coming.

2- When you want to be pregnant, or are "scared" you might be, your mind tricks you into to thinking you are.

3-Because the sperm aren't getting to the egg.

4- Good question.  The sheer though of having an abortion makes me ill.  Selfish little b*****s I think.  If you don't want a kid, I suggest they either stop s*x or give it up to someone who isn't lucky enough to be able to have kids!

5- Well, once you hit menopause you don't ovulate anymore, so you can't get pregnant.  And your eggs are with you at birth, you never make any more, and the older they get the "less fresh" I guess you could say they are.

6- Don't know anything about that sorry.

I do wish you luck on getting pregnant!!!

Answer 7

1. No, my periods are very inconsistant and I don't always know when they are coming.

2. I think that when you are trying to get pregnant you are more " in tune" with your body and want it to happen so badly that you start to take every little thing that you are feeling and turn it into a "pregnancy" symptom.

3. It may only take one sperm to get pregnant but maybe things just didn't "work out" that month.  Honestly, I don't know why.

4. Because people who are trying put alot of stress on their bodies therefore making it harder to get pregnant.  Those other girls that get pregnant by accident are the one who think "that won't happen to me" and when it does they don't woman up and take care of business.

5. Women have more "work" to do than men.  They just have to make a deposit and we are the ones who have to bake the little guys.  It puts more stress on our bodies.

6. Not sure why your doctor won't give you another script for more clomid and metformin, mine did.  I have pcos and they need to take alot of ultrasounds to see how many eggs were released they may become babies.  Blood work is to get an absolutly sure answer as to whether or not you made a baby.

I wanted kids all my life, I always knew that I wanted to be a mommy.  After my husband and I got married and started "trying" I just knew that something was wrong.  I talked to a doctor and they said you have to try for about a year before they can look into why your not getting pregnant.  We tried every month and ended up waiting the year.  I went in and was diagnosed with pcos.  My doctor put me on metformin but that did not work so he added clomid which still was not enough so I then started on repronex which is an injection fertility drug but still not baby so the last month I was on metformin, clomid, repronex and brevelle which is a higher dose of injection drugs and that did the trick.  In total it took 1yr and 8mons to get pregnant, that was very hard yr and 8mons for me, it seemed to take forever.  I had a beautiful baby boy.  When my son turned one I started down the fertility path again thinking it would take just as long to concieve baby #2, it only took 2mons on clomid and baby boy #2 was on his way.  I know how frustrated you are, but keep your chin up and think positive, I hope it happens soon for you.  You sound like I did when I was losing hope.  Good Luck  :)