I know this isn't in the right category but please help me ?

Question

I feel like Im losing my best friends and it scares me. I went to school with the 2 of them last year, I was a freshman and they were juniors. they were already best friends and i came to be included with them. I kind of stopped hanging out with my freshmen friends since they could drive wed go out and be crazy and have so much fun. well summer was great and now school has started again. theyre seniors and worst of all im at a different school. I love them to death and i cant live without them. ive been texting them every morning this week. before the first day of school i spent the night with them and when i had to leave to go to my school after we went to breakfast i was crying so much. they saw me to of course and laugh about it and reassure me, but im so scared with there senior year and then college next year theyll like forget about me. im seriously crying right now thinking about it. i need advice i guess : ( how can i not lose my best friends????

Answer 1

I'm a believer of the following 2 statements:

# Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

# Everything happens for a reason.

When I was in first school, 2 of my mates were totally close to each other. One of them came into school one day and said that they were moving to Malaysia in a few weeks time. This gutted my other friend but over 15 years later they still remember and love each other, even though 1 lives in Austrailia now! It's quite lush!

Answer 2

make new ones.

Answer 3

Ask this under "friends"

Answer 4

Good friends are hard to come by, but I will tell you from my own experience that as a girl friends come and go... when your older you will have one great friend maybe two if you are lucky. The thing is you need to accept that your ladies are older and going to college is going to be a huge part of their lives, be excited for them and stay in touch, but realize that you probably will grow apart and Im sure you will find good friends in the school you are at.  

Answer 5

well this was me basically 2 years ago.  a sophomore with a million senior friends and then again junior year.  i keep in touch via texting, facebook, aim, the obvious ways and they come back from college to visit my HS when they can and im not gunna say its a walk in the park cuz its not but if you want to stay in touch with them you will find a way to make it work i am sure!

Answer 6

Having best friends doesn't mean talking to them everyday or seeing them everyday.  A true friend will always be there for you during good and bad times, a good friend is always with you in your heart.  Best friends are the ones that come together even if it's once a week to share their experiences and get advice from each other.  If they are truly your friend then you guys will never loose touch.  

Answer 7

if your freindship is as strong as you think itll just take a little work and it everything will work out.  they need their own personal space too, and next year they will be in college.  people will come in and out of your life.  everything happens for a reason.  go out there and dont be afraid to show people who you are; make new friends!  you can never have enough friends!

Answer 8

if they're really your friends it won't matter...

My best friend and I have know each other since we were babies...I was two grades ahead of her and we never once went to the same school...I'm 26 now and we're still friends.

Answer 9

if you are true friends you will stick together. all of my best friends were older, went to different schools. You should start making some other friends as well. You cant live your life worried about your friends. You are your own person. They will stick with you if the friendship is real and if it is you wont lose them.  

Answer 10

I would suggest remaining friends but I would encourage you to be more open to acquiring new friends. Join clubs, sports, programs you find interesting whether through school, church, your community or online.

Whether you like it or not, they will never get younger and you will never get older. You can put yourself in a position so that you can graduate from high school early but you should still be more open to other friends.

Once you all enter and exit college the few age years of difference won't be so important but until then, I would encourage you to be open for friendships with others your age. Whether you realize it or not, there are probably more people out there similar to you but you are not keeping an open mind or door for them to become a part of your life.