I know who I want to be... but it's so hard to do what I must... What can I do?

Question

I know who I want to be... but it's so hard to do what I must... What can I do?

Answer 1

First, figure out what you have to do to get there.

Next, write up a plan that tells you what you should do everyday to accomplish your goal.

Finally, achieve your dream.

The key here is making small incremental steps of progress that over a number of years add up to the sum of what you want to achieve.  Anything worth achieving is worth working towards.  But constant, consistent work towards your goal is much better than sporadic, long attempts.  

For example, 15 minutes of a language per day every day, is much better than 2 hours crammed in on the weekend.  

Good luck.