I like a girl and she likes me...but she has a boyfriend?

Question

She used to like me a LOT, but now when I ask her she says "Somewhat", but I know I can build taht back up to what we had before, but I can't get a chance to because she's rarely single and I don't stalk her and know when and when she doesn't have a boyfriend. She says she would go out with me if it weren't for her boyfriend...But I need to know how to build up to what we had before.

Is the reason she won't break up with him for me because they go to the same school and we don't? I know she likes me but she doesn't show it...she doesn't go out of her way to see me as much as she used to...but I always sit next to her and she'll try not to look at me but I know what she's thinking. Also should I ask her about her boyfriend or will that make me look too suspicious or jealous? My problem isn't getting her...My problem is getting her rather SOONER than LATER, before it's too late because our feelings are going in opposite directions and I'm just becoming another one of her "n1ggas" while I'm needing her more and more...

Answer 1

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Answer 2

i think your just her flirt toy, to be real with you.

See look its exciting that she has someone who likes her, from another school, and she can flirt with you, with out having any kind of commintment, if you doubt this just go ask her, sit and have a talk with her.

Answer 3

Once, long ago, my mother had this friend who worked at an office. She had a picture of her sister on her desk, and one day a coworker walked in, saw the picture, and fell in love with her at once. He asked my mother's friend about her, but it turned out her sister was in a very serious relationship with her boyfriend.

The man couldn't stop thinking about her and how beautiful she was. He waited and waited, one year after the next, until about five years later, his coworker told him that her sister and her boyfriend had broken up. He insisted on getting introduced.

When they finally met, he knew it was worth the wait. They fell in love, got married, and have been happily together every since.

Just try to continue your friendship, and be there for her as a friend. When she breaks up with her boyfriend, be there for her, and take your chance. It's worth a shot; and sometimes it works out in the end.  

Answer 4

Trust me, i understand how you feel, i actually just dealt with a situation like that today. If i were you i would just end it now, before you end up hurting yourself like i did. This just happened to me today too.

Answer 5

I think you need to stop obsessing.  She probably knows you'll always be an "option" but you're not a priority to her.  Be nice to her when you see her but I think you should start seeing other girls too.  Maybe she'll get jealous when she sees how nice you treat another girl.  Maybe another girl could turn out better than the one you've been obsessing over.

She doesn't like you as much as you like her.  She would have gone out with you after she broke up with her last boyfriend and not ended up with some other guy.  Move on.