I like eating out with my girl friend, but she doesn't want to anymore.?

Question

She says she just wants to stay friends. Should I stop eating out with her? Maybe just for lunch?

Answer 1

She might think if you are spending money on her thats shes obligated to you for something else. Might ask her to pay one time and you the next to put some ballance in it , and she wont then feel obligated to you . just an idea.

Answer 2

simple don't just keep doing what your doing and make your problem weird... just tell her what it really is... tell her you guys are just friends and you love eating out and her eating out with you is fun... it doesn't have to be eating out means moving on in a relationship.. FRIENDS... doode don't ppl get that nowadays... but for reals break it down and tell her what is it... so that eating out would have no problem... and or maybe find your guys buddies and eat and try a new route for a change...

Answer 3

Were you picking up the tab?  Maybe it would have been better if you had gone dutch.  Instead, go to lunch as a group.

Answer 4

sooo unsensitive dude,

yes eat out, but double date, she'll feel less under pressure