I like four guys i need help plz lots of help!!!!!!????

Question

ok so there are four guys i like all of them go to my school and all of them are at least cute two of them are a lil youger then me one of them is a year older and one of them is a year and a half older the one thats a year and a half has been my freind for two years and so has one of the younger ones they both have had crushes on me since they met me two years ago the other young one i just met and i think has a tiny crush on me but has a gf that he ant see because he switched schools so i guess there breaking up but hes still a really cool freind anyway the one thats a year older than me ive been freinds with for a year hes really nice like this one time his best freind told me i was ugly and he completly diagreed so he kinda likes me two my real issue is that they are all my freinds and all are really cool they pretty much listen to the same kin of music as me especially the oldest the second oldest does a little to but is also the tallest thats taller than me

ive had a crush on the younger one that ive been freinds with for 2 years almost as long as hes had a crush on meonly thing is that they are all a little shorten then me except the second oldest the oldest has a little bit of a history in smoking but i got him to quit but he has a chance to start again because of who his freinds are but i no he would quit for me if i asked him to plzzz help me i cant choose bye the way my name is kiarra and there names in oldest to youngest are ian james michel and mackenzie

Answer 1

you obviously think you are fantastic because you have said that they all like you... i think you should actually ask which ones do like you - one on one not in a group, because i think youll be lucky to get one or two that actually do like you.

im sorry i just doubt that 4 boys ur decidin between all want to go out with you

Answer 2

go with one that likes you first if you dont like him go to the next, or another option is cheat and frind the best at once but i dont recomend it.

Answer 3

1: If one of the guys has a girlfriend count him out! It can only make things easier.

2: Just because a guy says ur pretty doesnt mean he wants to date u so be careful. Some times it is hard to tell who is just being a good friend and who is flirting.

3: Dont worry if he is shorter than u.

4. Guys who r younger normally stay with older girls longer. Guys like to brag they r dating an old girl.

5. Make a Pro/Con list. It really does help.

6. Remember in the end U have to decide no one else can decide for u.  

Answer 4

I don't know you personally, or any of those guys, so to be perfectly honest with you, theres no way me, or anyone else on the internet is going to be able to solve this. i guess i can give you some basic advice. You really have to use your mind and your heart. I wouldn't go for the guy you just met, ESPECIALLY because he has a girlfriend that is just wrong!!!!!! If your really concerned about their height and stuff than maybe your hearts not in it. Just imagine what if would be like if they were all ugly. Whose personality would you like the most? Who do you think you could trust? Who would you want to give your heart to? and most of all, who do you think would want to be with you, even if you were hideous?

Before you choose which relationship you want to pursue you should think about more important things in a relationship, even if it's just a fun fling. You don't want to end up getting hurt, or hurting someone just because you acted on a whim.

So think about it, and gather what info you'd like, but it's really a problem we can't help out with as much as your asking for.

Answer 5

who do you think you see yourself with, who do you see yourself being happiest with? who makes you feel secure, happy, really anxious, etc.? go for that guy!

Answer 6

your question is too long. im sorry I dont think I can read it,.

Answer 7

Any spares ? I need a new cute younger guy !!!!!

Answer 8

Well, first you should make a list of the pros & cons of each guy. DON'T make "they're so cute" one of the pros. Looks mean jack sh*t. Also, don't assume that you can change a guy. You can't. Guys change because they want to, not b/c of a girl.

Secondly, count the guy with a girlfriend out. Even though she's at another school, you'll never know if he's still seeing her or not. Plus, if a guy is willing to sniff around another girl while he's already got a girlfriend, the odds are that he'll cheat on you too.

Thirdly, make sure that you know the difference between friendship & like/crush/love. They may be a friend, but that doesn't mean that they're into you like that. I personally think that you should look into the youngest, the one who has a crush on you. You say that he likes you & you like him. I think that's the only person you need to focus on right now.  

EDIT:

Although if the youngest guy is the one with the girlfriend, then don't date him. Your question is so poorly written that it's hard to tell what is going on & who is who. Try re-writing it with a description like this:

Ian: he's the oldest/youngest/ect. he has _____.

James: He's the ________. He doesn't have ______.

Michel: He's the _________. He has _________ in common with me.

MacKenzie: He's the _______. He has a _________.

We can't help you if we don't understand you!

Answer 9

have s*x with all four at a time..

Answer 10

Why don't you date them all, get to know them better and find out if you are compatible with them before deciding?

Answer 11

well.... if u like four guys...u have sum options..

u can see which one asks u out and go out with that one and try to get over the others....

Answer 12

K...liking all four....n can't decide? you sound like me...best answer............... its NONE of them !!! cuz if you liked any of them truly you wouldn't be on here asking this question.. :)  

Answer 13

OOOOOOHHHH KIARRAAAA

GANG-BANG , GANG -BANG, GANG-BANG, GANG-BANG!!

EVERYONE'S HAPPY!

Answer 14

lol! you like 4 guys at once? is that even possible?

well, first of all, the younger guy w/ the gf is out.

Go for one of the two guys who already like you. It'll be a lot more fun that way.

Answer 15

Sounds to me you are very inmature.  Be friends with them all.  Why do you have to chose a very best one.  You come across as very narcissitic, it is all about you.  You need to focus on school and work for a successful future.  To get all hung up on boys at your age is a sure path to nowhere.

Answer 16

WOA.... thats a long story lol

well, first to start..... i dont know your age... is it 8th grade? highschool?or college?

well forget that....girls are considered to be more mature than boys, so lets take away the younger boys..

the younger ones wont be too smart to defend you when your in trouble(maybe). and they wont really listen to you when you are talkin to them about some thing of your time... so you'll sound boring.

so we cut down to 2.... the older one and the one who was your friend..

so now you have to choose between those two...

less problem.... ask yourself...(only the 2 older ones).

which one would fight for you????

which one makes you laugh???

which one is mean with other people, but nice with you??

which one talks to you more???

and when you answer, you have found the right boyfriend. now have fun

sincerely, pat

Answer 17

inny minny miney moe