I like him and he likes me. But his cousin is my boyfriend?

Question

I'm dating this great guy.

And I'm WAYYYY happy.

I really like him and he's so great

But then I met this guy.

He's incredible.

We're so alike.

He literally amazes me like every five seconds.

BUT he's my boyfriend's cousin.

We've been texting the last few days, just as friends.

But he told me he likes me.

And the thing is, I like him too. A lot.

I'm so confused and I don't know what to do.

I love my boyfriend to death, but his cousin shows me a side of life I've never seen. A side of happiness I've never seen.

I don't wanna leave my bf.

But I don't wanna hurt his cousin

HELPPPP

What do i do??

Answer 1

Leave the cousin alone. You're only gonna end up hurting your bf and tearing their family apart. You wouldn't want anyone doing that to you.

Answer 2

You have to make a decision.

You can't have them both.

The grass isn't always greener on the other side.

If his own relative is hitting on his cousin's girlfriend, that family has a lot of drama.

Answer 3

If you say that you love you boyfriend as much as you do.

You woulve never laid eyes on the cousin.

You need to keep up with your relationship OR leave them both alone.

You cant expect to have them both eating from your hand, that would only destroy their family relationship.

You have disrespected your boyfriend by talking to his cousin behind his back, so as soon as he finds out whats going on. He might send you through a tube.

treat others how you want to be treated.