I like my bestfriend...

Question

okay so im a guy and ive completely have fallen head over heels for my bestfriend. she says she likes me only as a friend but she always says she loves me and misses me and kinda keeps me at a first importance with her. she likes holding my hand and flirting but i ask her about being together and she says im just a friend, Im like What The F**K? i dont know what i should say to her. am i reading to deep into our relationship? or does she like me and afraid to admit it?

Answer 1

She's definitely trying to have her cake and eat it too. Meaning, she wants to be your friend, but she likes the attention you give her because she can tell you like her. Flirting is fun and harmless, and sometimes doesn't necessarily mean anything. It's a confidence booster, who wouldn't want a friend like you around making her feel special? Don't get me wrong, you're still special to her as a friend, but you probably are reading too deep into the relationship. If she gets a boyfriend, you're going to be really devastated if you keep holding onto these feelings. Keep your options open and try to remind yourself that you're just friends. Everything happens for a reason and if it's meant to be she'll realize you're right for her in time, otherwise hang on to your friendship because good friends don't come around everyday and you wouldn't want to jeopardize your friendship with her.

Answer 2

Be patient. I married my best friend :)

Answer 3

I'd say cut her off completely from u and maybe then she'll have awhole different attitude about it and u

Answer 4

i had this same exact problem with my ex-best friend. he would do the same thing with me. and now my best friends likes me, and i do flirt with him, but i don't like him. i mostly flirt with him for three reasons.

1. its just all around natural to flirt with the opposite gender

2. probably has to do with how close we are

3. he's a cutieee

she loves you and misses you and keeps you at first importance because you're her best friend.

maybe you should just tlak to her about it? ik its easier said then done, but it's worth a shot

idk how much that will help you but good luck!

Answer 5

ohhhhh; she is stringing you along.  shame on her.  she wants the best of both worlds, and she's getting what she wants, it sounds like.  if she frustrates you as much as i think she does, then you need to move on.  or at least find a new "girl friend"... good luck.

Answer 6

dont date ur friends

and never have ur best friend whos da same s*x as u r