I like my husband's friend? What should I do?

Question

I have a crush on my hubby's friend and things have gotten complicated. I was out drinking with him one night and he started talking about his relationships. Suddenly, I told him I just wished my hubby and I had more s*x (totally inappropriate!) and we talked about s*x for a while. He said he'd talk to my hubby and i would have to let him know things have gotten better between us (just drunk talk) Well, we went shopping for a present for my hubby and he went into Victoria's Secret with me and even told me what he liked and that I should get it and wrap it up so I could give it to my hubby for his birthday and that hubby would love that! I texted him to let him know how much my hubby had liked another birthday present we had picked together, and he told me "you should wear that thing to bed tonight" I'm just totally confused! Why is my husband's friend saying these things? I know I shouldn't have let things go this far, but what's going on?

Answer 1

she is right,,a threesome...well or (what are u thinkin girl, get ur head right)

Answer 2

Jadis has best answer

Answer 3

Don't allow yourself to be alone with him hun you need to stop now.  it has already gone too far.

Answer 4

I would suggest a threesome.  Have your hubby's friend suggest it to him.

Answer 5

Oh wow!  Dear, you need to stop.   Picture your husband doing to you what you have done to him.   The flirting has gone beyond the limit.   What were you thinking even walking into Vickies Secret with another man to pick out lingerie!?  

Ok, stop communications at once.  If he texts you, write back one word replies.  Never go out alone with him.   What I am concernd is that he might say something to your hubby.,,becauase if he likes you, then his male ego and competitiveness can get in the way and all h**l will break loose!

If you no longer have feelings for your hubby, then tell him, dont make him suffer later on by cheating on him...in a sense you already have.

Goood GOOOODDD LUCK!!!!!

Answer 6

I know what your marriage can be hard. Tell your hubby's friend thanks I'll think about it -don't let him know any more of your bis. tho. Play it cool around him for awhile Your marriage is worth saveing.Good luck.