I like this friend of mine?

Question

Okay, this is a little complicated:

I am pretty good friends with this one guy, and kind of friends with this girl. I really like the guy I am friends with, but the girl likes him too. Normally, that would be okay, you know, two girls liking the same guy, all in good nature. But I think he likes her too, I'm not sure. I know they saw eachother a lot this summer, while I saw the guy a couple of times, and the girl only once. I know they are good friends. But now that school has started again, it seems like they are always together. I felt like I had maybe gotten over the crush this summer, but now it really hurts to see them so close. He has told me that he doesn't like her in that way, but she has said she still likes him and is pretty sure he likes her too.

What do I do? And is there any way to feel better? I see these people almost every day :(

Answer 1

all the answers you get are gonna hurt but the best thing u can try to do is deal with it and maybe meetin other guys will help

Answer 2

it will be really hard to se them everyday, so you might want to talk to both of them and tell them that it really kinda bugs you

Answer 3

try to find someone else

Answer 4

why don't you just talk to him

the longer you wait to tell him how you feel

the worse it'll be

he may move on in that time span

if he says he doesn't like her

take his word for it

tell him how you feel about him

that way he knows

that you are an open option for him

you never know

he could be wondering if you like him

Answer 5

Perhaps you maintained too much distance and didn't let him know how you felt so he chose this other friend of yours.   By getting a little closer and being a little more assertive perhaps he will know how you feel.  But just remember, then your friend will feel exactly how you feel now.  It is a double edged sword.

The only way to truly feel better is to give it time.  I know it hurts.

Answer 6

Ooh. My two friends were best friends and now they barely speak to each other. You've got to get your feelings in control now, before they snowball into hatred. I watched this happen.

Get your eyes on something or someone else and wish them well.

Answer 7

d**n i hate that feeling i had that happen to me but what i did is go for it and asked in my case the girl out and i recommend you ask him out to

Answer 8

I'd say that if he texted her mostly all summer that you'd be a friend to him.. don't a guy come between your friendship cause honestly there wil be another guy come along.