I like this girl emotionally but i'm sexually attracted to guys help!!!!

Question

i know this girl and i like cuddling with her and stroking hair and talking but nothing further then that

i like guy but i don't a crush guy, well maybe one

anyways i'm i g*y for sure

Answer 1

I've already answered your other question which you posted after this one, so you might be sick of hearing from me. That being said, one of my close friends cared deeply about a boy for a long time. I thought he might be g*y because of conversations with mutual friends, but it was in no way my place to assume that, so I told my friend my suspicions and let it go. They continued to converse, spend time together, etc. and he eventually ended up telling me he's g*y. He still hasn't told her, but basically stopped contacting her at all. She's very hurt and has accepted his sexuality but feels like he was very cruel to simply end their friendship. She wishes he could have told her or that he valued their friendship enough to ask her advice.

Try to make sure your friend knows that her relationship with you isn't going anywhere romantically. It can be difficult, especially as this may be your first time 'coming out' to anyone. She could prove to be a trusted friend and a good sounding board to help you figure out your sexuality. It seems like you care about her, so I'm sure you'll make the correct decision and not hurt her purposefully. Good luck. <3

Answer 2

Then you need to be honest with her. A girl is a girl, and she's going to read more into this friendship, and eventually end up very hurt and hating you in the process.

Answer 3

You shouldnt lead her on.