I like this guy, but?

Question

There are a bunch of new kids at my high school, and there is this one guy i like. The problem is that at least 4 of my friends like him, and so do a bunch of other girls. I hang out with him in the hallway, and talk to him in class, but i dont want him to think of me as "just a friend" but i dont want to make a move, and ruin our friendship, what should i do???

Answer 1

take a step up and win him over, but be careful, your 4 friends will not like you for that.

Answer 2

If he likes you, let him make the 1st move.  You want to be careful not to upset your friends either.  if they like him and you ask him out, they will be upset with you. If he ask you out, well then that means he liked you more then them.

Answer 3

umm, ............uh well, this is complacated because if you dont want to make a move and dont wanna stay "just friends" then like ummmmmmmm..................................

idk i just want my 2 points.

Answer 4

its just a crush u will get over it over time no point ruining u friendship plus if they were real friends they should be happy for u

Answer 5

I would just keep getting to know him better.  Take a sincere interest in him and his life.  Maybe tell him you're not interested in a relationship now and only want to be friends.  That should get his interest!  Plus, if you do something together you can tell your friends that it's not romantic, you are friends.  If it turns romantic, you can tell them that friendship turned into romance.

Answer 6

To be honest, the best thing you can do IS to make a move, just casually slip into a conversation that you really like him. If he doesn't like you back or something, things won't get awkward between you unless you MAKE it awkward, so just act normal.

But also be wary that if your other friends like him too and you're the one that ends up with him, they might not be the nicest of people to you - so if your friends mean more than he does then check with them that they'll be alright with you going out with him!

Hope I helped

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Answer 7

i think you should just be your self and tell him how you feel

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Answer 8

Make your intentions clear, unlike girls guys don't believe that you should be friends first and then start dating! I don't date my friends.

Answer 9

you may have to make a move if you want this to possibly become more  than a friendship. You never know, he may be feeling the same way and not want to make a move on you because he doesn't want to ruin the friendship.

Answer 10

it a difficult situation that you have right now you want that person to look at you more than just but you dont want to make a move.

well all i can say is just continue being good to her but prepare your self that he might not love you back.

Answer 11

well in that case you can be his true friend if you don't want to ruin your friendship and if he really like you then you should tell  him how's your feeling about him and if he like you, he would accept you or still accept you just as his friend! that's all i can say!  

Answer 12

be as nice as you can to him...try to act like he is "all that" and make him feel great.  and if you think  he likes you back than start giving him hints.  like, if you can text, be like," what do you like about me" and ask more and more questains soon, he will be all yours

Answer 13

Hey Heart ForwardSlash.... I would suggest that you do in fact make the first move...but make him feel like he made the move.  No...I take that back....go ahead and make it.  You have to much competition that you might lose to, so step up to the plate and knock it out of the park.  Dont give him a card or anything else cuz he might misinterpret it as just being friends....just ask him to meet you someplace...the malll, a restaurant, the park, a street corner...it doesnt matter where...as long as you get a chance to get him alone without the rest of the clan.  Then tell him straight out...ask him of all the people around the school...who he likes the most?  If he himhaws at all...tell him of all the people up there...that you like him the most, but you are scared of making the first move.  The rest of it will come naturally for him.  He just needs a little help with your pushing....