I like this guy and he likes me but he lives sorrta far away...whzt should i do?

Question

should i ask him out......?....?.....i just dont know how it wld work what do u think!.?.?.!

Answer 1

I had a long-distance relationship with this cute boy last year.

The first 2 months were great, after that we started forgetting to call or text. If you really like him of course you should do it. If you are unsure, I'd wait.

Go ahead and go out with him and enjoy it while it lasts.

If you trust him he will trust you to stay faithful.

♥Good Luck

Answer 2

give it a try. long as you have cell phones and myspace..you'll stay connected :-) And if it doesnt work out...oh well. u live and you learn. good luck

Answer 3

it depends on how far he is and you guys should really get in touch often like e-mail or by text stuff like that

Answer 4

get a chance to meet.

i am in that situation now.

he likes me, i like him.. we are close to 3000 miles apart, i'm just on the border of cali and he's in boston.

anyway, we are working out a way to meet.. save some money hun.. go visit or ask him to meet you. it will be well worth it.

NEVER COMMIT ONLINE!!! no way!

Answer 5

just let it go i tried this it doesn't work....you dont want a long distance relationship it really sucks

Answer 6

Long Distance never work, for two main reasons 1. theirs never trust and 2. and most importantly theirs no Communication. =)

Answer 7

How far? Are you able to visit on weekends? It is hard to make a relationship over the phone. If you can make arrangements to see him regularly it should be fine.

Answer 8

well i think u should try it  but those relationships don't always work out. like once i had a relationships like that

and the guy ended up cheating on me becase we didn't see each other but good luck

Answer 9

i think it will.

if you just work it out .

Answer 10

i know how you feel

i like this lad to who lives far away

well he lives next door to one of my family

and i really like him

but i know it wont work out

try stayin in contact with him until your abit older like driveing

might work out then!

let me know how it goes x

good luck

x x x

Answer 11

Long distance relationships are hard but if the relationship is really true it will work. You should give him hints that you would like to pursue a relationship with him. Don't ask him out, the male should be the one who asks the girl out. Unless, its Tolo like or something.

Give it a try. He may be the one and if not you can always end it.

Good luck!

Answer 12

well if this guy or you has a car then that could work out. Long distance is sometimes good but there is always that trust issue.

Answer 13

long -distance relationships don't always work out,

Answer 14

You're right...it more than likely wont! Try to be friends for now and see where it takes you. It's extrememly hard to want the company of someone you can't be physically with. Oh, it may work for a little while but what happens if you meet someone close to home?

Answer 15

The thing with long distance relationship is paranoia. People just want to know constantly what each other is doing and they always fear of cheating. Trust is also LOW. Communication is always up and down. Conversations over the phone and the Internet is not the same as face to face conversations because you can't see their physical gestures. Most of the time you might misinterpret what is being said or done etc.

Answer 16

Ok, I'm just going to be honest as always:

I'm in the same boat, I like this guy and he lives 1000 miles away. We are taking it easy but things naturally are taking their course and they are going a bit fast you can say... We have so much in common. Same question you asked him I already did.

It really depends on the level of commitment you have for each other even though you ain't bf and gf, what does he think about you. Does he talk about being bf and gf, does he talk about seeing you as a future for him? Have you talked about the possibility of moving? etc. Those questions you have to ask each other before any of you ask out.

I would try to feel him out see what he thinks about you. Can you handle the fact that he's away? I didn't ask the guy I'm talking to out, but I did tell ask him what would he say if I told him I'm ready for commitment. He answered that even though he looks at me like the future Mrs. HIs last name... that we should take it slow since it's hard for us to be together... and that was that. I still talk to him every day, several times a day he calls me, we talk about everything and anything.

It all depends if you are strong enough to take rejection. His response surprised me a little because based on his actions and what he tells me I think he's ready, and i thought he would say yes, but he told me, that's his job (to ask me out). he's a bit old fashioned and he's only 24. So he said, He would like to do that in person that he doesn't want to do it over the phone or through text. So I gotta go with that, besides what's the rush you know.

You also have to think about the possibility of commitment. Just because you are far away, does that mean he's going to see other people where he is at? etc, so you have to ask yourself those questions first, I would say, dont' rush it... Just go with the flow of things. Feel him out and try to get to know him as much as you can... Good luck