I like this guy; but he has a girlfriend?

Question

I like this guy who is about 2 yrs older than me but thats not a big deal

We known each other for a long time but recently started to get close.

the problem is:

he has a girlfriend of a few months & she lives in in southeren north carolina and we're in northern.

my older brother is very protective and violent

our moms hang out alll the time

oh yah &&& we made out a month ago

but we text a lotttt and stufff and he lives in my townhouse area

i heard he likes me from a few people but everything is so complicated

what should i do?!

Answer 1

relax and let the flow go. it seems that you have a pretty good relationship. don't push or rush it.  

Answer 2

Talk to him to see if or where you two are going.

Answer 3

if he's already got a girlfriend, why r u so interested??  

Answer 4

If he likes you he will break up with his girlfriend. dont try to take him away from her and dont mess around with him while they are together because karma will come around and bite you in the @ss. Wait patiently,continue to talk to him as friends but talk to other guys too.

Answer 5

Just because he may like you doesn't mean anything.  He has a girlfriend.  Your talking to him, hanging out and making out is not good either.  Limit your contact with him.

You see - if he will cheat WITH you - he will cheat ON you.  Continue doing what you are doing are you will get hurt.

Tell him that you have feelings for him but since he has a girlfriend and you don't want to get hurt, you are going to have to limit the amount of time you spend with him  Tell him that you can be friends but you can't cross that line.

If he doesn't respect that - he isn't worth it anyway.  If he does, then he will probably break off the other relationship so you to can be together.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 6

just stay friends the time will come for yalls to be friends

Answer 7

mm :/ ive been in the shoes of his girlfriend, and tbh, when the other girl made a move on him, it tore me in two. i suggest you leave it, to prevent broken hearts :/

Answer 8

just try talking to him. it always works.

Answer 9

Apparently, you have already let him know that you are  available by making out with him so the next move concerning your relationship is us to him.

Answer 10

Don't mess around wih a guy who has a girlfriend. All you will be to him is his b*tch on the side. If he breaks up with his girlfriend, and you KNOW they are truly broken up, then go for it. Otherwise, find a single man. There's plenty of them out there honey! So just be upfront with him and tell him that you are really into him and you think he should break up with his grilfriend. If he does, awesome. If not, then he obviously likes the other girl better and you are wasting your time. Good luck!

Answer 11

If he has a girlfriend I think you should just keep your distance.

Answer 12

SO just leave him ALONE

Answer 13

He has a girlfriend.  Enough said.  You wouldn't want to be in her shoes and find out that some other girl is trying to steal your boyfriend.  Don't be that girl.

Answer 14

DON'T be the girl who tries to steal somebody else's boyfriend. You're asking for trouble, and honestly, how much respect would you have for yourself. Also, put yourself in her shoes. How would you feel if somebody was trying to steal your boyfriend? Not too good, right?