I like this guy but?

Question

I liked this guy for about 8 months. He is perfect in every wayy.

2 years older; cute; altheltic; great personality; etc.

The problem is I waited to long and now he has a girlfriend of 2 months, but she lives about 45 mins away.

But I've heard from pretty realiable sources that he thinks Im cute and likes me.

We text a lot tooo.

And kissed a month ago. (I feel scummy because he cheated with his girlfriend but like ... stilll)

And he thinks I'm cutee :D

I want him to be happpy.

But I really want him

what should i do?!

Answer 1

You should ask him whats up,you may not like the answer so be prepared for that to,it may work out for you too but remember you could be the girl he has now later on,be careful..

Answer 2

Merry Xmas.

You have been defeated.

Answer 3

well it would be wrong for him to cheat on his girlfriend with you. because i dont think you would like it if i did that to you. i mean like i know you like him and all but just wait for the right time. because if its ment to be its ment to be. but dont make him cheat on his girlfriend babe. im suree the right time will come.

xx

Answer 4

hey if he want to be with you he would leave his girl just because he say you cute doesn't mean he willing to let go his girlfriend so just sit back and wait on him to make his choice  

Answer 5

tell him you know he has a girlfriend, but that you like him.  If he wants to stay with his girlfriend, then get over him.  You like him, but he is not the only fish in the sea.  Also remember that if he cheats on his girlfriend, he would be likely to cheat on you as well.  Don't let him cheat on his girlfriend with you.

Answer 6

I think u should hang out with him like 2 more times then tell him how u really feel.   if ur wondering what if he hates me after tell him its fine if we could be just friends! this happened to me i said i like him he said i like u too but i have a gf  and i said when u break up im first in line but for now lets be friends and later that year we dated!! Good Luck anyway

Answer 7

well be sure to get him to get rid of his girlfriend before you do anymore cheating ,as i despise cheaters .   If you really love him or feel like you deserve him , then chase it and see what happens. the girl lives 45 minutes away - take her down. lol  

Answer 8

Learn to be happy with sharing him with other girls.You see if he is cheating on her with you, then he is also cheating on you with her.

He hasn't broken up with her and he will nail any chick who drops her drawers.You ain't that special sorry.

Answer 9

Ehh... sounds like your stuck in quite a situation...

well think of it this way. you really dont want to be selfish.. and get him to break up with his girlfriend... but you guys sort of like eachother..

Well i would call/text/or meet up with him and tell him that you dont want to cause an interfearence in his and his gf's relaitonship. that would be the right thing to do..

but then again, tell him maybe some other time.. OR.

if he really likes you and not his current girlfriend... he should tell her that he doesnt want to date her while liking you, she should understand. get what im sayin?

Answer 10

I think you should just wait for them to break up. It can't go on for that long if he has already cheated on her.. That's not a good sign. What if you two go out and he cheats on you? I would wait until they break up and then ask him out.. If he is still going out with her in 2-3 months I would just go ahead and ask him out.. and then see what happens.

Answer 11

you should just go for it. tell him the truth. if he like his girlfriend more its fine. it won't ruin your life. duh!

Answer 12

Well you can try going after him and try to win him away from his present g/f.   You have the advantage of being closer and your inside info that he likes you.  But something to keep in mind: you said he cheated on his g/f with you.  What is to keep him from cheating on you later.  Even if you did come on to him, what happens when the next pretty girl comes along and "comes on to him"?  Just something to think about.  Good luck.  

Answer 13

If you want this guy to take you seriously don't ever kiss him again while going out with someone else. Just let him know you really like him and see what happens after that. He might end up dumping his girlfriend and going out with you.

Answer 14

Listen to the song called Let it Be by the Beatles lol

Let it be let it be!

Answer 15

Tell him how you feel.  

Answer 16

don't be the second girl for him that's gross

Answer 17

you should ask him out

if he says yes CONGRATS

if he says no it was better den bottling it up

Answer 18

tell him u like him. whats the harm? if he likes u too u will make him happy

Answer 19

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C5m8gi6lW...

Answer 20

You are probably a young teenager, and finding yourself in a new exciting, yet dangerous, yet overwhelming situation. You gave little details but I wanted to recommend you a book that for me changed my relationship-life and it is about how to treat men. It is probably supposed to be a book for women who are a little older than you, but I think it is never too early to get and read the following book: "The Rules". It tells you how men think and how you need to treat them so you will control the relationship and have it go in the direction you want it to go and not the guy.

Good luck. And I cannot stress it enough, read that book, at least the first one in the series.  

Answer 21

Talk to him. or do some majour flirting. so he gets to notice you more. go way out of your way to look beautiful. then he will relize that u r the 1   4 him.

Answer 22

No one is perfect in every way.  And kissing another girl while having a girlfriend really proves he isn't perfect.  I suggest being his friend till he and his girlfriend split.  Then you can make your move.

Answer 23

cheating people are whores...

execpt in this case, steal him

you like him, and he likes you,

to me thats happiness.

shiet, go for it.

!!!

:)

Answer 24

So you know he's a cheater, and still want to be with him? You're an idiot.

Answer 25

wait till he breaks up w/ his girlfriend and see if there is a chance

Answer 26

just say to him, " i really like you, and i need to know if you feel the same way, your choice is right here, if you want me too, i'm right in front of you, and if you dont, then your girlfriend is 45 minutes away, its not fair to me, and not fair to (whatever her name is) i want you to be happy, but you cant have us both."

Answer 27

What you should do is leave him alone, since he has a girlfriend, and tell him, since he has no clue, that if he wants to be with you, he will have to break up with his gf first.  

Remember, if he does do that, to go with you....who is to say that he wont be kissing some other girl while he is with you.

Dont put yourself down by helping him cheat on his girlfriend. Would you want it done to you? You might want to ask yourself that.  

Answer 28

perfect eh? except he kissed you when he had a girlfriend. so...he's not a good steady. he cheats. and you think that's ok, so you must be willing to accept the idea that he will probably cheat on you too right?

NOW he has a girlfriend of 2 months but she lives 45 minutes away, so you must be looking pretty good to him since you're close and obviously very available.

grow up. he wasn't interested in having you as a girlfriend before, and now you're just some easy chick who is making herself available because he doesn't want to wait too long between seeing his girlfriend. he sounds like a sleaze, and you...well. I'm sorry for you if you think he's prefect.

at least you have enough sense to feel  bad about being the "other woman"  

Answer 29

well im single :P

tell him you have a soft spot for him and ask if the kiss meant something to him and ask him if he likes you.

Answer 30

text him if u think u guys were ment 2 be. if not he was not the one 4 u. u will find someone else. keep faith.