I like three guys who like me i cant choose help!!!!!!!!?

Question

ok so yesterday u all told me about my four guy problem and you and you helped allot but i still cant decide between the other three so I'm gonna be more organized and specific this time

first there's Ian ian is about 3 inches shorter than me he plays football and is really nice to me he and i have been friends for 2 years now and hes liked me since then he is a year and a half older than me we listen to the same kind of music and everything the only is that he has had a smoking issue and i got him to stop but there is still a chance that he could start again because of who his Friends are Ian told me he liked me half a year after he met me and has told almost every month at leats once since then but he wont go to socials or anything because he gets nervous and is afraid of what his friends will say

then there's James james is 2 or 3 inches taller than me he plays football and basketball we have been friends for a year now and all my Friends think that he likes me he is really really nice what i lthere's that he'll msg me just to Friends I'm doing or to see if I'm going to the same party he is james is a year older than me he also has a great taste in humor he can make me laugh no matter what

finally theres michel he and i have been freinds for 2 years and he has like since then just like ian i started to like michel ever since he told me a year ago that he had had a crush on me since he met me but i had a bf at the time so i felt bad but he had a gf too so it worked out michel is really athletic and plays mainly basketball he can always make me smile when im upset

so i dont now which one i like more i think i like michel bu tthen i get a msg from james and fall head over heels for him then i see ian and want to run and give him a hug so yea i just want your opinions i always need another persons veiw plzz help me !!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

WOAH ma calm down first that ien kid hes bad news he probably gonna get lung cancer and you dont want to get mixed up with him because he probably still smokes the other kid with the gf is not for you either somebody already gots him sooo James is the man for you go for it shorty you'll be straight with J

Answer 2

If you really like him, you shouldnt have to change him (the smoking issue etc) a nasty habit like that is gonna leave a dent in your relationship and your opinion of him afterwards, i dated a guy like thtat and every time we fougt (including when we broke up he would threaten to smoke!!! thats a huge stress in a relationship.

also, if he's looking to cheat With you, he's willing to cheat ON you! so, I wouldn't go for michael, just brush him off as a good friend but a bit of a flirt. (hopefully his gf's will stop being so oblivious)

I would say James because he seems like the only one who is genuinely and purely interested in you. The other guys are good friends, and I'm sure you don't want to lose that, so if you start dating james, even if you don't, tell michael and ian, and all the other guys to stop flirting with you and toying with your emotions because you want to remain friends, and friends only, especially if you have a boyfriend.