I like to crossdress?

Question

im 14 and i wanna be a girl .. any advice ?

Answer 1

do you really wanna be a girl? then my advice for you is to take female hormones. the younger you are the better. it will make you look feminine or more feminine but the most important is it will make you happy :)

Answer 2

Hi,

i would recomend,like others have said, that you confide in your parents, your mom might be a good person to talk to. You could try your doctor or perhaps  look on the net for a local gender support group who might be able to better advise you.

Answer 3

Fair enough. I'm a 13-year-old girl and I want to be a guy! (I'm bi-gender) (That's why the avatar is male. Shhhhh - keep  that quiet :) )

I would just say that maybe if you really wanna be a girl then consider surgery when you're older, but if it's just that you like dressing up as a girl, then be who you wanna be. I told my mum. It was pretty tough, but now she understands she can help.

Hope that helps

:-)

PS Check out this link cos you might be bi-gender like me: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bigender

Answer 4

Talk to your parents or someone you trust because this is a problem. Be happy with the way you are (:

Answer 5

well, firstly, do you crossdress to get sexual pleasure, or do you believe that you are a girl already and have simply been given the wrong body?, one is a normal fetish many young men have and many adults, the other is a more complicated issue as if you feel you have been born into the wrong into the wrong body then s*x reassignment surgery may be what you need, if this is the case then i reccomend speaking with your doctor, who will likely refer you to a psychiatrist to determine which of the two options most fits you, crossdressing or transexualism is nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed about

Answer 6

Just keep in mind that crossdressing can be okay, but people can take it too far. It's usually pretty normal for guys to wander what girls clothing feel like. And for guys who say otherwise, they might be lying to make themselves look "masculine" by making others look more "feminie" than themselves.

As for advice, I probaly wouldn't tell your parents yet, unless you know you can trust them not to freak out, but if they are pretty open-minded and you think they will accept you for this fetish, then tell them, it will make it much easier for yourself.

Otherwise, wait until you're old enough to move out on your own to tell them, if at all.

Answer 7

no.

Answer 8

Get RENT the movie.

Trust me. :)

Answer 9

if u wanna be a girl then u r not a crossdresser but a transgender

Answer 10

uh sucks to be you...?

Answer 11

You need to see a gender therapist and get a diagnosis of GID. Then you would need to be referred to a transgender-friendly endocrinologist who, at your age will likely prescribe testosterone blockers which would stop your puberty. When you reach age 18, you could get estrogens and a surgery

Good luck