I liked this str8 girl since....?

Question

4th grade.

and just recentley, i realized it isnt healthy for me to be in love with some one who will never love me back.

but some reason now everytime I think about her I get mad.

why am I getting a feeling of maddness any ideas(is it maybe cuz I'm not fully over her) or what??????? she didnt do anything mean or anything I just dont know.

btw I'm in 8th grade now.

Answer 1

I think it's a normal thing to be feel angry about it. I mean you probably built up a lot of fantasies about this girl and now it's coming to you that you probably won't get to realize them. The thing is, you need let it go. She can't help it she's not into you, just like you can't help you are into her. Or were into her. It's a maddening thing to want what you can't have. Either you're mad at her, mad at yourself, or just mad at the situation. Either way it's best to let it go.

Btw: as a bi man I fall for straight women all the time and its no big deal.

Answer 2

i think you're mad, because no matter how big your love is for her.. you can never be with her

Answer 3

Aaahh straight girl crush... That was not fun for me to go threw.

but like all these other people have said,

your mad because you cant have what you want.

Id say stop talking to her, create some distance between the both of you. Its going to friggin suck but eventualy youll find someone else... if you keep your mind open to it, and you'll eventually get over her.

Answer 4

Rule 1 about being LGB is not to fall for strait people...

Answer 5

im completey in LOVE with one of my best friends whos straight and i cant get her off my mind.. but i dont feel angry towards her. maybe you feel angry because you have liked her for so long, and you really want to be with her, but you know that you cant. youve liked her for 4 years, and she dosent like you back..thats a hard thing to deal with. but you shouldnt be mad at her just because shes straight

Answer 6

I think you're just mad that you can't have her

Does she have a boyfriend? I had a crush on my friend and once he got a girlfriend I couldn't stand seeing him anymore because I was so jealous

Answer 7

it's like a temper tantrum - happens to most people, i think (happens to me).

can't have what you want, so you're mad at the thing you can't have (in this case, it's a lovely woman, not a thing).  

you're also probably a little mad (disappointed) with yourself that you're ruled her out as a friend: as you get older you'll realize that you can be friends with people without 'owning' them - you can 'love' someone without their 'loving' you back equally and it's OK - you'll survive. but that's not 8th grade stuff.