I am 35 & married before with no children. He is 43 & married before with 2 boys. We all live together and the boys see their mother from time to time but do not have much of a relationship with her. Its so tough for me because the oldest has Autisim and OCD & has anger issues. The youngest usually plays video games at least 10 hours a day and does NOTHING else. Sometimes I "feel" as if they want me here to Clean the house, do laundry, do paperwork, Ect.... Ect.. We both agreed that I wouldnt work due to getting things done. But I told him that I am going back to work part time.( That may help) Sometimes I break down and cry. I am not going to give up on the boys. They already ( as they say ) "Lost their mother" I am not going to give up on my Fiencee ( We do truely love one another) I just need some advice on how I can stop feeling useless & how I can "talk to the boys to get them to listen to me & their father. They also can be quite dissrespectful, lazy and mouthy.
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