I live with my cousin and i don't like her what do I do?

Question

SHE GETS ON MY NERVES I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

if she lives in your place... kick her out.

if you live on her place, move out.

Answer 2

make a list of the thing's you hate about her, and thing's you like...and show it to her...then have a long peaceful talk.

Answer 3

You could try keeping your distance. You didn't give much details but if you could move out then that would probably be the best option as others already stated but if you can not move then try talking to her about what "gets on your nerves" and see if there could be a middle ground somewhere for you two to live together in peace. Hope this helps and good luck.

Answer 4

Only people who live alone don't have people who get on their nerves.  It's natural--even with people we genuinely love.  Rise above it. Be mature. And find a way to give each other some space.  I bet you get on her nerves, too.  This sort of thing follows us throughout our lives; at home, in the workplace, within clubs, and unless a person choses to live like a hermit, one must find a way to get along.  

Answer 5

Why don't you talk to her about it, she might be under pressure or upset about something.

Answer 6

dont be mean to her. dannngggg.

you obviously dont get along because

u guys are mean to each other.

i  mean you guys need to be like TIGHT YO.

and when u fight be like NAA YO!

Answer 7

Just becasue someone is a blood family member does not mean that you will naturally or automatically get along swimmingly with them.

Also, it is just hard for two women to get along well under the same roof. For instance mother and daughter. It becomes a bit challenge.

If you cousin is doing things that are bothersome to you then you might want to get yourself prepared so that you can move and get your own place.

If her behaviors are dangerous to herself or others then you need to try to talk to her about it, and if she chooses to continue the negative behavior then at least she has been informed.  

Answer 8

Leave each other alone, have space between each other. Or find another roomate!

Answer 9

I THNK YOU SHOULD LIKE WORK THINGS OUT, U KNOW THAT YOUR FAMILY ,AND YOU CANT ALWAYS NOT LIKE HER. YOU GUYS SHOULD SIT DOWN AND HAVE A DISSICUSIN OR SOMETHIN GOF WHY YOU DONT LIKE HER OR WHY SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU. OR YOU COULD PROBALLY MOVE OUT OF YOUR COUSINS HOUSE TOO.

Answer 10

If its your place kick them out if not you no were the door is  

Answer 11

she's family work it out because at the end of the day all you have is your family.

Answer 12

omg alaya, that is so mean. if my mom was awake, i'd tell on you. you chose to live with us, so u can't hate on jasmyn. i should tell grandma and your mom becuz that's messed up, u didn't have to live with us, & we didn't have to waste our summer trying to get you over here. this is very messed up. especially when people r saying kill her. u know better.

Answer 13

  First why do you live with your cousin..how can you hate her when her parents are letting you live there...  i guess move back in with mom and dad.

Answer 14

Move out.

Answer 15

"Pop" her in the eye.

Answer 16

How old are you? and what is the situation? We don't know much..can't help without details.

Answer 17

okay well cousin speaking! i thought we were tight like that i mean i love yout to death and we fight but i didnt think u could sink low like this. i meani have always had ur back thro everything. and you are living in my house with my sisterand my mom and dad so i could tell my mom on you but i wont. and i mean u have people saying kill me whats wrong with u i meanyou are 12! and im 14 so chill! i mean we are family. i thought we were best friends. u get mad at me for no reaso half the time and i just dont understand u. and i love having u stay with us but if u feel that way u can move back to the states.

Answer 18

You can move out or ask her to move out.

Answer 19

Simplest answer would be : Find a place for yourself.

Difficult answer : Try to figure out why you are responding this way, and see if there is something you can do to change this.

Talk with your cousin about your feelings, and ask if said cousin can help you in dealing with it.

Answer 20

Theres no need to move. Just talk to her about it. Set her straight with what ever.  

Answer 21

Hire an assassin.

Answer 22

If she bothers you that much , you can always find another place to stay. Or better yet , think of the things that annoy you most then think about it hard . Is it better to ask another relative to stay with them. Or is it just better you make no comments and suck it up while seeking their housing. The best  thing you can do is avoid being around the person you least like. Or try to do better in communication with them to get better along with them. Maybe in the long run you both will enjoy each others company .

Good luck.

Answer 23

you should try talking to her about what you dont like about her.. what dont u like about her again?

Answer 24

The feeling is probably mutual, so consider that you aren't the only one suffering. Why don't you try talking to her and being mature about the whole thing, that way you two can work out your differences.

Answer 25

Move out.  Find other living arrangements.  If you can not do this then talk with her and work on what bother both of you.  If you let each other know then you can work on it.

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Answer 26

Try and make friends.

Answer 27

I had roomate problems in the past, just stay in ur room and ignore them.

Answer 28

that happens to me

basically i handle it really very immaturely and i get on their nerves

so they can get a taste of their poison

but basically just ignore them and get as far away as you can from them

if they're in one room try to go to another room

Answer 29

move out, kick her out, or just ignore her and go about your own business

Answer 30

Trim her toenails and braid her nose hairs.

Answer 31

Stay away from her until you are able to move out