I lost a good friend, can someone help?

Question

Recently I pretty much lost a good friend. I never knew her in real life but we definitely talked like we did. During summer we were always staying up late playing games together. We had something going until recently. Prior to that I had stopped logging on the MSN less and less. I didn't stop caring for her, it's just that i sort of got lazy. I come to talk to her after what seems like months and she totally changed. She had pretty much no respect for me and frankly just didn't care. I tried talking to her but all she could do was "lol". It's hard for me to give up such a good friend but sometimes I just think that I can't get her back anymore, and I hate that. I pretty much bawled for 40 minutes thinking how such a good friendship could be thrown away like a piece of paper. A lot of the time I think it's my fault. Is there any way this can be fixed? Thanks a lot for reading.(God, i hope she isn't reading this thinking how much of an idiot I am.)

Answer 1

frankly, it is in some extent your fault, maybe she had given up on you too. the best thing you could do right now is be persistent in still pursuing her. Show her that you are sincere and you really want her back. Maybe she will forgive you. And when she does, don't forget to treat her nice again.

Answer 2

If she was a really good friend she wouldn't treat you like that.  There are plenty of other nice ppl out there.  Its her loss.  U tried.

Answer 3

well not to be mean, if you think i am sorry but it kinda was your fault you let her go for a bit but if you want to get her back you need to let her know that you messed up and your sorry and hopefully it wont hurt your guys friend ship...

good luck

Answer 4

there's no such person is as GOOD as GOD... just go with the flow...

Answer 5

Go ask her, "Is there something wrong? Can I help you?" Is she ignoring you recently? If she is, just tell her what a p**p head she is. If she's lazy too, then- it must be the laziness. Just ask her what's wrong.