I lost my Virginity can you help me?

Question

I lost my virginity at the end of last week and I knew that it was going to hurt losing it, but it been hurting for (4 days) now. Is that normal for it to hurt that long. I blead a little bit , sometimes when a use the bathroom (uriniate) it stings is that normal?

Does the size help at all about the pain?- he weres Magnum so am guessing that big. (Not trying to show off either) How longs will it hurt?

Can I be allergic to latex?

Answer 1

well you said he wore a condom. there might have been something on the condom, that when he went into you, could've gotten you an infection. you should see a doctor. you might have an infection and should get an appointment.

Answer 2

you need to see the doc i dont know of any one where it hurt that long it may be a bit sore but not hurt

Answer 3

maybe you have a UTI, sometimes that happens.  Tell your doctor it hurts when you pee and they'll probs get u to take a urine sample.  You dont need to say youve had s*x but then  if the test is ok and your still sore u could say.

Answer 4

Its not abnormal to hurt 4 days after losing your virginity. As long as the pain isn't extreme, it is perfectly normal.

Answer 5

talk to your MOM, you need to see a doctor.

Answer 6

Honey, you didn't "lose" your virginity - you gave it away.

I hear that you were not ready in that you had no idea what it would be like..

It is possible that you have develped a bladder irritation/infection - known as "honeymoon cystitis".  It could have been caused by mechanical irritation or bacterial infection from "partner".

Really, you need to tell your Mom and follow her advise, including contraception.

Don't put this off - you can get into deep doo doo.