Basically I had a bad relationship with my husband, he used to blame me for everything - we had a break in and he said it was my fault, then I went off him sexually and he still would do things to me. I got pregnant, he told me what a bad mother I would be, I should get an abortion, made me feel really low. I have been in abusive relationships before so it made it extra bad this time.
We are divorced now! but my problem is he has been saying things about me to my friends. Like I cheated on him, I betrayed him and they stopped talking to me a year or so ago. Today I was feeling sad about this and I was thinking about calling them and explaining to them (they already know partly what he is like) but then should I do that considering they took his side in the first place???
They still get on with me, but they think I should go back to him. Should I try and be friends with them??
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