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I lost the thing i hung my hat on, how can i be happy now?

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I'm going through a midlife crisis (although i'm 14). Well, i thought i was really talented at this thing. I won every competition i entered, i was selected to be in gifted programs and everyone said i was the a genius at it. And i had been told this all my life, so of course i believed that i was brilliant at it. In-fact, my whole self esteem was based around the fact that i though i WAS the best. But the other day i came across a child prodigy on TV that was even better than me. I have come across other people that i know were in the same league or maybe higher - but this girl was out of this word! I am at the stage she was when she was 8! And she is two months younger than me! I'm crushed. I know realize that i'm not good at all, i only just qualify for adequate. The only reason i was respected as talented is because i am the best out of the worst!

I'm absolutely devastated that all i thought i was turned out to be nothing at all. I can't even explain how hurt i am. The "thing" is my life. It's all i've ever been good at. Now i am nothing. I HATE this girl for her talent! And i hate her for doing this to me! A week ago i was happy and had a promising future because i thought i could go the distance. How can i ever be happy again?

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  1. " I'm going through a midlife crisis (although i'm 14). "

    LOL


  2. uuummmmm.... you didnt tell us what the talent is??

    weird.

    anyway, you are young. talent grows with age if you regularly practice. child prodigy are just that and are few and far between. instead of worrying about how good other people are... figure out what your faults, mistakes, or downfalls are in this "thing" and get better.

    you have plenty of time to make a name for yourself at your school, in your town and eventually college.

  3. YOU ARE SO STUCK-UP!!!

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