I love a guy i can never have...stupid stupid me...help on this...?

Question

ahh i'm in love with a character from a book...more specifically edward cullen from twilight...I KNOW HOW STUPID & LAME THIS IS...ahh i have no idea how to say it but i just can't stop think about him. i feel like i need to be with him.

CRAZY, i know

i'm officially insane

any ideas how to make me sane again?

Answer 1

I take it Twilight is either a TV show or a band.

If it is bothering you that much, don't watch/listen to it ever again and in time, your feelings will fade and you can concentrate on finding a real mad.

Answer 2

I highly doubt you are in love with him.  

Answer 3

Try and find a real live Edward Cullen or someone similar, then fall in love with him. ;)

Answer 4

Sanity is a paradox.  The more you have, the less you know. Sanity, like air, is very much over rated. Who cares about sanity when you can have love instead?  Someday your prince Charming will come to you riding a white horse with a rose in one hand and a ring in another. It won't be like the book, it'll be a trillion times better because it will be real. Until then, enjoy your fantasy.

Answer 5

Get a boyfriend, that should take your mind of this character!  You could also read another book!

Answer 6

Ok, let me just say this, I HAVE BEEN THERE! I'm 18 freakin years old, and a self admitted Edward Cullen luvaa! I swear I want to kidnap Robert Pattinson..lol.

But trust me you will get beyond it and realize that you love his character, not him. I think it is perfectly healthy to want a guy LIKE Edward, as a matter of fact, they could all take lessons on how to treat a lady from him. You have OTD [obsessive Twilight disorder] right now, but in a month or two you'll only think about it oh, every 2 minutes instead of every minute. lol. No, really it's okay. I have said it before, and I will say it again, Twilight changes, and takes over lives!!

Answer 7

Its common for people to fall in love with fictional characters.Wake up and move on.

Answer 8

you need a professional help...

Answer 9

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Answer 11

It's human nature to covet what desire and can't have.

Answer 12

It is very common for women of all ages to fall in love with a book character. Back in mid-evil times when i woman would fall in love with a book character it was believed that the initials of the character (in this case E.C. ) were the initials of were their "soul mates" first and last name. But i just think you like him because he is like your dream man/guy (whatever you wana say)  so if you want to get over him tell your self over and over again about the guy you would hate to marry for ex: E.C. is disgusting, he is mean and nasty,etc.. Maybe then you will be sane again.

Hope this helped.

Answer 13

LMFAO, burn the book. As I say Time heals everything..you'll forget about anything if you have enough time. You just need to cut yourself off from things that remind you of him. But seriously this is totally lol :P

Answer 14

lol ha this is crazy for me to admit, but I actually went through a stage of absolutely wishing that I was part of the book where I could meet a character. lol hah don't worry it's not that bad you'll get over it, just get out there in the real world and go meet REAL people! Don't worry :) it happens sometimes whether people like to admit it or not:P

Answer 15

haha. look, you'll get over it soon or later and you'll realise how silly this was...

we've all been through it.. we've had crushes on celebrities though, not some characters..

Answer 16

I think loving someone who isnt around, who cant say the wrong thing, and that will always be perfect, in the sense will never hurt you is... SAFE.

safe is good.. but you cant build a life on safe.. and you cant build a life with fantasy...

your sane, just like people fall in love with the rolls actors play, you have  fallen for someone made up...

i think if you hit reality, and understand that the real world will hurt, but in the end.. it will be worth it... because you will have that person to hold, hug and share your life with...

go out, look at a few boys, and think about what they have got and what edward cullen doesnt... look at the real boys positives, and cullen's negatives... and take it from there...

once ur attracted to the living male.. then find the right one for you!

and if he ends up having charactoristics like edwards, then ohh well ! hahahah all the best.

Answer 17

OMG!! UR STUPID!! THAT IS A CHARACTER IN A BOOK.......its not even real. Here a thing you can do GO TO THERAPY!!!

Answer 18

You might start by looking up the definition of the word "love", there are several types of love, how, exactly, are you smitten?

Some folks find it safer to long for something they can't have, rather than work on the reality of a real relationship.

My suggestion is getting to know someone in the real world, that you care for, that cares for you, I think you'll find reality can be better than the fantasy world.

Luck

Answer 19

your not crazy,  it is normal for some poeple to develope a crush, even from a book character.  The Character embodies everything you see in a man.

now you just need to look for a man to fill that desire.

you will find him eventually

Answer 20

Heyyy. its pretty normal dont worry. Its just like how people can "love" the actors they never met. Its sad though you will never be able to meet him. only the author... this isnt love just keep remembering that. Its a strong feeling but not love. I hope you find a guy like that in normal life x

Answer 21

find a guy who looks like him. good luck  

Answer 22

ahhh that really sucks :/

good book though..

try to find a guy at school, someone you really like