I love attention from older women especially teachers, i am straight and ive always felt like this, why?

Question

Ever since i was young ive craved a huge and support from an older woman, some one to talk to and help me out. This sounds normalish, but its always got to be a pretty one?

I dont fancy them, i just admire them. I use to get abit obessed with female teachers, not in a weird way if that can be possible!? I dont have a great relationship with my mum and i feel like i cant talk to her about anything without her being mad. Im 19 and i still get it!? what is wrong with me!

Answer 1

I think you just seek older female acceptance.  This might be a result from you not having a good relationship with your mother.  Is your mother pretty?  Do these teachers remind you of her?  

Anyway, I don't think it's anything to worry about.  You just have a profound respect and desire to be praised by older, attractive women.

Answer 2

Teachers are often lifelong role models and since you're not particularly close with your mom, it sounds like you're looking for nurture/maternal support elsewhere. Makes perfect sense to me!

Answer 3

That's a very common reaction to a child who hasn't bonded well with their mothers, nothing wrong with it, so stop worrying, your getting the attention you need.  

    As for being the pretty one's, nothing wrong with that either, facts are "we're all" guilty of being attracted to the "pretty ones", whether it's a gf, bf, kids, babies, clique's, cars, haircolour, clothes, need i go on!!!!

    Do you know the best way to pick a hairdresser? make up artist? etc. by choosing the one who wears their hair or make up the way you think is attractive?

    Not just that, but a lot of women, have problems, keeping or making friends with other women, especially if their good looking, i think it's a jealousy/trust or competion issue.

    So i don't see how it can be so bad.

     You'll probably get over it, so go ahead, its obviously something you need right now, there's nothing wrong with it.

     Besides, you've got the best mentors can a girl have or wish to aspire too?

Answer 4

nothing dude you just like older women its alright

Answer 5

I think you are looking for approval from these women that you are not getting from Mom.

You are going to have to find more confidence from within yourself.

Be careful these people may want to mentor you as your teacher but I'll bet they do not want to mother you.

You are looking for role models and think a prettier woman has it all. You think they can best teach you how to act and dress.

You need to look deeper.

Sorry I understand I have a bad relationship with my father.

Such a waste of energy, huh?