I love god a lot but i don't really like church in fact i am starting to hate going what do i do?

Question

my mom is making me go to church when i don't want to am I'm afraid that if she makes me go as a child i will have a bad impression on church and slowly drift away from god when i get older but I'm still on fire for jesus he is my savior and i do pray about it!!! what should i do?

Answer 1

Well....think about the reasons you dislike going to your current church and talk them over with our mother. Maybe she'll understand and ya'll can find another church that you like better. If she doesn't want to change maybe you can go with a friend or relative to another church. If she doesn't like that idea, Obey MOM and go to her church. Check out some churches online like www.newspring.cc. This will give you a feel of what some other churches are doing and when you are older you could check'em out in person.

Answer 2

There is a lot of hypocrisy in the church and a lot of false believers. Maybe you should sit down with your mother and explain to her your reasoning for not wanting to go to church. I used to go to church, but it can only give you so much insight into your personal relationship with Jesus Christ. After you know who you are in the Lord, and where your relationship stands, it may actually be better to break away from the church and let yourself decide how best to go about glorifying Him.

Answer 3

i love god but church is just not my thing cause of like beliefs i dont exactly believe in everything cristians believe in and im cristian and catholic

Answer 4

I think that maybe you need to find a different church!  Is your mom open to trying out some new ones?  If so, visit around until you find one you're comfortable with.  There are some good ones out there that are very child/teen/young adult-friendly.  I'm thrilled to hear that you have a relationship with God.  Now find a church that cultivates it! :)

Oh--and as long as you're living under your mom's care, you should respect her and go to church with her no matter what.

Answer 5

Read the bible, pray, talk 2 ur mom. Finding a solution will be hard but it will all work out fine!  God luvs u!  

Answer 6

Talk to your mom about your concerns.  Worship as you please.

Answer 7

you may be just going through a faze. i would personally keep going its only about an hour a week, if its more let your mom know how you are feeling. there has to be an underlined reason.  but never give up on God regardless of what you deside

Answer 8

Ask your mom to allow you to try going to different churches. Try to find a good Bible based church. If you are young, try get envovled in a Church based youth group. God bless.

Answer 9

Most people pull away from their background as teens and return as adults anyway.

It doesn't matter what you do about it- you will likely find a church that is right for you (check out some research if you need back-up).

The thing is, what is going to make your life easier-

or, What Would Jesus Do?

Would Jesus go with his mother out of respect?

Is that one of the Ten Commandments...?

Of course it is.

Make her happy.

Then, make sure she helps you get into a good college.

Just Kidding.

But, how would you want your child to treat you?

Golden Rule...

Answer 10

It is good to see that you are on fire for serving God.  Just remember to focus on God and listen to the sermons.  People can sometimes take our focus off of the Lord so go to him in prayer and let him fix it.

We all have drifted off from the church as we go older, but mom planted the seeds for when we run into hard times--God. Train a child in the way they should go.

Answer 11

talk to ur mom... i dont go to church and thats doesnt means that your going to h**l for quit going to churchcu in my case i dont go but i still love and believe very much in God