I love her, but not in love with her....Help?

Question

I love this girl, but i know she is not "The One". Do i call it off now? Or wait until she feels the same way? i Don't want to hurt her. She is very special to me. Just not the love of my life.

Answer 1

the sooner the better!!! be honest, be calm tell her how you feel and tell her why you don't want to be with her in this way she may be upset now but you will be in an even bigger mess if you leave it, trust me

Answer 2

Don't call it off! You know that you love certain things about her. Eventually you will grow to be inlove with her. Just wait especially if you all have only been going out about 6 months to a year, thats when you will be figuring out if you love her. If you have a good time with her and obvisioually love who she is! Don't call it off just to break you alls heart. It would really help if you told us how long you all have been going out?

Answer 3

It is best to call it off now.  It will hurt no matter what but it will just get harder the longer you wait.  Plus it isn't fair to her...you are going to end it eventually so there is no reason to wait.